Postby Zarn Ishtare » Wed May 03, 2006 5:36 am
While I'm actually looking into learning ninjitsu (Anyone who says it isn't a real martial art needs to do more research) from a local master, I would heavily suggest taking a grappling/stand-up fighting oriented martial art, if your going in for self defense. To this day, the best I can think of is Brazilian jujitsu and or/ the Grady school (Can't remember if that is the exact name, but it sounds close) of martial arts.
Also, a real martial arts school/dojo may or may not be a family oriented place. I know that the sensei I wish to train under is a good guy, but I also know that he views his work as a way of life, and not something that he'll water down to teach children (anyone below teenager level). And he certainly wouldn't give out black belts to 10 year olds, like I've seen in some dojos*shudder*. Alot of serious sensei's may or may not be particularly nice about their training methods, particularly if they think you aren't taking it seriously or your slacking off.
Sadly, there are too many places that throw diluded knowledge to the masses hoping to make a quick buck, usually people who teach Tai Kwon Do or American Kickboxing (What I took). While these are actually fine and noble martial arts, there are alot of posuers and people who generally shouldn't be teaching. That has more to do, however, with the fact that those martial arts have been stateside so long, rather than any defiency in the arts themselves.
At any rate, just try to get the best deal for your money, and try to go into whatever dojo you pick with a humble, respectful, serious attitude. While your sensei may or may not be possessed of great patience, if you enter his domain as a student in spirit and in truth, you will most likely earn their respect. As far as the rest goes, just try and do your best, and give 100%. That is all anyone can ask of you.
With your doubt, all is comfort
We are all as we appear
No more questions left unanswered
No more wonder, no more fear
Nothing is beauty, nothing's feeling
Blood where there once was a soul
So I ask you, prove yourself
Make me believe that you are whole