Postby Alice » Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:32 pm
I saw this show. I thought it was interesting -- yes, a bit creepy, but let's be honest, most of the time people don't think about of question the quality of life children have, and I have to say those parents seemed to be doing a lot better than some who have one or two kids.
A kid with no siblings, divorced parents, or one parent, a "regular" schooling where he has lots of bullying and few or no friends -- would be considered "normal," and probably no one would worry about that kid at all.
I think it's good to show families like that on TV. I hope it will broaden people's minds and show that there's nothing wrong with having more than 2.5 kids.
(I agree with what Black Rose Misoa said, too. "Be fruitful and multiply" were God's words, and He didn't say, "Oh but by the way by the year 2000+ that will be outdated advice so forget I said anything.")
I'm all for adoption, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't have kids yourself. Though naturally not everyone is called to adopt (or have) kids. Personally, I hope to have kids of my own when I'm married, AND adopt, if the Lord wills.
What I found interesting is that this family didn't just make a little extra room and make the kids make do -- they seemed to actually go about things in a manner that showed they were thinking ahead about taking care of their kids, and spending time with them, and everything. That's something more people should do, I believe.
I realize that most parents try to do the best they can for their children, but in my experience, parents with larger families usually try harder, and take their jobs more seriously. And yet they're the ones that society frowns upon.
People talking without speaking
People hearing without listening
People writing songs that voices never share
And no one dared
Disturb the sound of silence.