kiss and he was about to take his mask off too but before i saw his face i woke up
Raven wrote:um ....... christian ronin i have watch the phantom most likely more then you i have memorized every word of that movie i think thats the reson for that dream XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
Perhaps you are concerned about dating a hypocrite (for such is the Greek in the Gospels, a mask wearing play-actor) pretending authenticity but who is not at all what he seems, and rather someone much uglier on the inside. In this respect, the Phantom of the Opera would provide the relevant imagery.Raven wrote:okay i had this dream heres the summary of what happened
i was in a pitch black room yet i could clearly see a boy around my age i couldn't see his face cause he had a mask on he held me close and we were about to
what do you all think it means please post if you have any ideas please
bakura_fan wrote:never seen it...only the wishbone version. ^^,
I think we all know that already, nor was I suggesting it was some kinda dream oracle, but I do not believe the subconscious is strictly speaking illogical at all times, and it can be a key to innermost thoughts, almost more you than you if you will.Uriah wrote:I would post some of my dreams, but they would get me banned.
Therefore, not all dreams come from God.
GhostontheNet wrote:I think we all know that already, nor was I suggesting it was some kinda dream oracle, but I do not believe the subconscious is strictly speaking illogical at all times, and it can be a key to innermost thoughts, almost more you than you if you will.
Raven wrote:okay it offical I KNOW EXACTLY WHO THE GUY IS ^_^ its a guy who goes to my school and who has this HUMONGUS crush on me hehehe he asked me out it scared me so bad i haven"t given him an anwser yet WHAT SHOULD I DDDDDDOOOOO?!
P.S., this site ( http://www.gothic-charm-school.com ) is most excellent, a good use of time to read through even to people who are not gothic.Topic the Second: Being the Object of the Crush.
The suspicion has started to dawn on you that someone thinks of you in a special manner. Friends are starting to whisper and giggle, and apparently you have been suddenly gifted with the superpower to cause a specific person to blush and become tongue-tied. NOW what do you do?
The simple answer is to treat the person smitten by you in a manner that YOU would like to be treated if the positions were reversed. Sending out subtle signals (such as the ones mentioned above) is one method, while others favor the direct route and just ask the smitten person out on a date. But what do you do when you really DO just want to be friends with this person? You don’] You’re just trying to dissuade them, not demolish their emotions and self-esteem.) The object is to if at all possible AVOID having the “just friends” speech. No one likes being on the receiving end of that little talk, and it is almost always the kiss of death for a friendship.
Unfortunately, sometimes the person-with-a-crush doesn’t catch on. No matter how clear you think you are being about how things stand between you, they keep trying. Visiting you at work, leaving you little presents, constantly inviting you to go do things, showing up wherever you are and worming their way into conversations you’re having with other people, acting jealous when you talk to other people—these are actions of someone who isn’t getting the hint. There is a line between showing someone you like them and stalking, and for some people that line blurs quite easily.
The best thing you can do is to let them know that while you appreciate the attention, you don’t feel comfortable with the level of it. Try to explain this calmly, but don’t be surprised if the person-with-a-crush doesn’t quite get it. At that point, the only thing you can do is to stop associating with them. If you see them in a social situation, be distantly friendly: don’t go over and get involved in a long conversation with them, just acknowledge their presence and then try not to interact with them.
Of course, in a perfect world, everyone’s crushes would be repaid in kind. People wouldn’t have to pine over the Object of Their Affection, but would happily find out that their affection was returned. But, however much of a hopeless romantic the Lady of the Manners may be at heart, she knows that it doesn’t always happen that way. Hopefully, her advice this month has been useful to some of you (and to one specific person, and they know who they are). Pop back around next month for more advice, and feel free to write to headmistress@gothic-charm-school.com if you have anything that is weighing heavily on your mind. http://gothic-charm-school.com/charm/?p=26
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