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Postby Godly Paladin » Sun Dec 18, 2005 12:04 pm

I used to cry all the time as a little kid (doesn't everybody?), but I can't remember the last time I cried other than getting choked up over a movie.
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Postby Mr. SmartyPants » Sun Dec 18, 2005 1:10 pm

Sakura15 wrote:Like I said before, it's strange, because you dont want anyone to know, yet you hope someone notices and wil care.


that's so true T_T
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Postby Taka » Mon Dec 19, 2005 9:01 am

Mh. I blame my tendancy to cry over anything to the fact that I refused to let myself cry for years and years. So I have alot of crying to catch up on. I cry when I'm fusterated/angry/sad/hurt/tired/lonely ect... I only cry with my parents, boyfriend or alone really. I do cry "in public" at times, but no one ever notices. I am the QUEEN of crying silently. (my boyfriend is more than a little disturbed by this, lol) I cry at songs in public, like while singing at church or a concert, but I can hide it ok.
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Postby TurkishMonky » Mon Dec 19, 2005 11:26 am

i don't usully really cry, i usually just get teary eyed. when i'm frustrated with myself, i sometimes cry, but by myself. when i'm sad i usually draw.
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Postby Artist4Jesus89 » Mon Dec 19, 2005 11:50 am

My friend Kinzey cries in the shower and sometimes when im with her but thats not often she is like a stone wall she seems to never cry but she ends up having to of she would get depressed i think.
no unlike me i cry about alot of things i am an emotional person i just cant help it i mean i try not to cry in public but i cant help it if something really upsets me but usually i go to the bathroom and cry... i was in school one time when my friend was cutting and i didnt want to cry in front of her so i held it in but it was so hard my lip was quivering by my next class and i asked my teacher to go to the office so while i was on the bench waiting to see the principal i bursted out crying and i couldnt stop until like 30 mins later when the counceler (sp?) sent me home...
I mean it matters who sees me like if im infront of people that i dont know then i wont cry but if im in front of people i know then i dont care i will cry.
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Postby Destroyer2000 » Mon Dec 19, 2005 12:46 pm

...when was the last time I cried? I don't remember. I don't let myself cry...ever...

Even though I know it isn't good to not cry, I don't care. I'm not going to. Things just build up inside me, and I release them with my blade. So...alot of times, if I'm seen with my katana, I'm probably angry over something. Otherwise I just get depressed, or extremely lonely. Actually, I get lonely alot. And strangely, I know the exact reason...unlike most other things. Doesn't it suck when you can't understand yourself? :lol:
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Postby agasfas » Fri Dec 23, 2005 5:07 pm

I can't remember the last time I cried... It's been a while...

Lynx wrote:actually crying is good for you, it gets rid of stress chemicals or something


Yep yep. But for me, I just go outside for fresh air or workout. That seems to help with my stress or gives me time to think and clear my thoughts. :)
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Postby Yojimbo » Fri Dec 23, 2005 5:12 pm

I just hit the punching bag, workout, run, play with the pup, curse. I cry like 2 or 3 times a year probably. Tough guy syndrome I guess.:eyeroll:
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Postby chibiphonebooth » Fri Dec 23, 2005 5:35 pm

Yojimbo wrote:I just hit the punching bag, workout, run, play with the pup, curse. I cry like 2 or 3 times a year probably. Tough guy syndrome I guess.:eyeroll:



O.O

*cracks up*

tough guy syndrome. thats a laugh. XDDD
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Postby Yojimbo » Fri Dec 23, 2005 5:47 pm

chibiphonebooth wrote:O.O

*cracks up*

tough guy syndrome. thats a laugh. XDDD


*lips quivers*

*eyes water*

I'm gonna go try to punch a bird now...when and if that happens is when I'll be back.
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Postby chibiphonebooth » Fri Dec 23, 2005 5:52 pm

Yojimbo wrote:*lips quivers*

*eyes water*

I'm gonna go try to punch a bird now...when and if that happens is when I'll be back.



punch.. a..bird?

wow, you really are stupid. stupidface. STUPIDFACCCEEE. jeez.

JEEZ.

UGH. JEEZ.

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Postby Destroyer2000 » Fri Dec 23, 2005 7:00 pm

I never really cry, but I do get teary eyed when I listen to certain gospel songs or such.
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Postby Ssjjvash » Mon Dec 26, 2005 4:11 pm

Bakura_Fan wrote:I hate being or feeling weak.

>_< Me too.
I tried to act tough and strong and make myself stronger, but I got it through my thick skull that I am supposed to be strong in the Lord. In that sense, I am never weak!

I used to cry myself to sleep almost every night a couple of years ago. That was when I was depressed though.
Now I only cry if I'm badly stressed. I cried at my last final and that was embarrassing!! I had to get up and go to the bathroom to get control of myself and I saw a couple of kids staring at me. X_X;;;;
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Postby Hitokiri » Mon Dec 26, 2005 7:09 pm

I don't cry really. I don't hate things. I don't care if I am weak, or if I don't measure up to standards, I don't care what others think, and I don't surpress emotions.

I just don't cry much. I only cried at two events this year: when my friend died and the following few days and when my pastor died, the following few days, and the funeral.

Other then that - I feel saddness but I do not cry. But I don't hate crying. I like it actually.
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Postby Kaligraphic » Tue Dec 27, 2005 3:55 pm

I like to cry before a battle. I stand and cry "Havoc!" before letting slip the dogs. of war.

Otherwise, typically not.
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Postby TallHobbit86 » Tue Dec 27, 2005 11:26 pm

Crying can be embarrassing, but it's a much better way to cope with stress than a lot of other alternatives.
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Postby Boink! » Wed Dec 28, 2005 7:18 am

Boink! wishes Boink! would cry sometimes. But it gets all bottled insided until breaking point, then Boink! cries. Happens every few years or so. But it feels so good afterward; like some heavy burden is lifted and Boink! feels relief. That's why Boink! wishes Boink! would cry...
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Postby yukinon » Wed Dec 28, 2005 7:32 am

3 times in one day! Score!

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Postby Taka » Wed Dec 28, 2005 9:55 am

^^ Whats up hun? :lick: :hug:
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Postby Sammy Boy » Mon Jan 23, 2006 5:57 am

As a kid, I was told guys don't or shouldn't cry. I always felt I was weak, but now I realise this is not the case.

I used to cry about physical pain.

Now I cry about emotional pain.

When I'm sad, and I cry, it feels really good afterwards.
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Postby tofusprinkles » Mon Jan 23, 2006 12:23 pm

I think that crying is good for you. Holding in your feelings can be harmful to your mental health. I cry when ever possible/appropriate. I cried over a Kodak commercial once. I cried when I lost my cell phone once--I lost all of my numbers and little things like not being able to text someone really quick to say something made me sad. But don't cry for me Argentina--alas I found it...then cried tears of joy :)
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