Slater wrote:I can foresee this being closed since that's such a racial stereotype...
Edit: Sorr, no offense by that... it's just that I remember a lot of my asian friends at school not liking that stereotype when it came up...
Mr. SmartyPants wrote:it's not really a steryotype... it's sort of true......
Nearly ALL asian parents who were born out of the US are all... over-achievers and go like "YOU GOTTA GO TO HOPKINS!" or something
this SAT teacher was telling us (shes chinese) about her dad told her "You got 2 choices... Princeton or Johns Hopkins..."
she went to Hopkins
Thats where the steryotype comes in that "all asians are super smart..."
Whats TRUE is that parents are like "DO THIS AND DO THAT GO TO HOPKINS!!!!" etc etc
Mave wrote:Now, I've never read that book but man, I -cringed- when I saw the cover. In my household, there are two things you cannot walk over..... 2) Books. My mum would have seriously whipped me if I ever stood on books like that. I find this interesting coz this shows what my culture prizes and respects.
Don't be ludicrous]When I think back at my school years, it all does seem a bit silly but I also understand that my parents did it for my own good and I appreciate that. I am what I am today, mostly thanks to my parent's upbringing. All my parents wanted for me was to be successful and happy. Of course, "successful and happy" can be defined in many ways but the typical thinking would be good education, good job and good financial standing. It's quite secular in thinking but my point is my parents were focused on me and my future, sacrificing their personal dreams and needs for me.Technomancer wrote:By and large though a lot of North American culture focuses on instant gratification, is often explicitly anti-intellectual, and takes a dim view of "keeners".
Ingemar wrote:In one of Ravi Zacharias's books, he described the intense familial pressure in India to succeed drove some children to commit suicide if they didn't get the test scores they wanted (Ravi himself tried to poison himself because he couldn't cope with the stress).
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