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Postby starstoryteller » Tue Sep 06, 2005 6:58 pm

Would it be considered incest :wow!: if you married your step-sibling? :?:
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Postby Mangafanatic » Tue Sep 06, 2005 7:03 pm

starstoryteller wrote:Would it be considered incest :wow!: if you married your step-sibling? :?:



Um. . . Technically, no. I don't think so. You're not really related afterall. If your parents had never gotten married, it would have been lawful for you to wed.

Would it still be weird, though? Yeah. It would be pretty weird.



(This scenario is the basic set up for Marmalade boy, isn't it?)
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Because of this genocide of innocence, hundred and hundreds of children live every night sleeping in public places miles from their homes, because they know that if the do not-- they will disappear. They will become just another number in this genocide to which the international community has chosen to turn a blind eye. They will become, in affect, invisible-- Invisible Children.

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Postby Aka-chan » Tue Sep 06, 2005 7:08 pm

I wondered about that too...or actually, what if one married an adopted sibling?
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Postby starstoryteller » Tue Sep 06, 2005 7:12 pm

I personaly think that it wouldn't be worng caus there is no blood relation.
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Postby Scribs » Tue Sep 06, 2005 7:14 pm

It might not be wrong, but it would be exceedingly awkward.
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Postby the_lizardqueen » Tue Sep 06, 2005 7:53 pm

Scribs wrote:It might not be wrong, but it would be exceedingly awkward.

Well, that sums it up quite nicely *nods*

Overall, I think it's inappropriate if the stepsiblings have been in the same family for a very long time (i.e. since early childhood), since they where raised in a manner similar to blood simblings. Whereas it's simply strange if they haven't been stepsiblings for particularly long. But in the end, it isn't technically wrong...I think...

One of my favorite shows featured a troubled romantic stepsibling relationship, and it was somewhat disturbing. But maybe that's because they had been portrayed as blood siblings leading up to that point.
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Postby Alice » Tue Sep 06, 2005 7:58 pm

It would depend how weird it was when they became your step sibling. If you were both in your teens, it might be hard to think of the person as a sibling. If you were little kids when you became sibs, yeesh, that might be weird. ^^;;;
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Postby meboeck » Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:02 pm

Aka-chan wrote:I wondered about that too...or actually, what if one married an adopted sibling?


I know someone whose parents did that. The mom had been taken in by the dad's family, and they ended up getting married.
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Postby Arnobius » Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:03 pm

Depends... in most states in the US and in many countries, marriage to a first degree cousin is illegal

In most, marriage to a second degree cousin requires special procedures

Third Degree cousins is mostly legal
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Postby Uriah » Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:05 pm

One thing that was really weird.. My brother got married a few years back, and about a year after my grandpa married her grandma.

I think it's halarious, but I'm sure they feel really ackward about it.
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Postby Gypsy » Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:05 pm

the_lizardqueen wrote:One of my favorite shows featured a troubled romantic stepsibling relationship, and it was somewhat disturbing. But maybe that's because they had been portrayed as blood siblings leading up to that point.


Yeah, I'm just really glad that I caught the "so no blood relation," bit when he was in the police station. :sweat:
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Postby GhostontheNet » Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:10 pm

AnimeHeretic wrote:Depends... in most states in the US and in many countries, marriage to a first degree cousin is illegal

In most, marriage to a second degree cousin requires special procedures

Third Degree cousins is mostly legal
But unless my memory of the english language is screwing up or if in law "cousin" is a technical term, a step-sibling isn't exactly a cousin.
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Postby Fsiphskilm » Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:17 pm

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Postby Arnobius » Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:17 pm

GhostontheNet wrote:But unless my memory of the english language is screwing up or if in law "cousin" is a technical term, a step-sibling isn't exactly a cousin.

Let's see: The legal term for this is consanguity, and it limits who can be married in a certain degree of blood relation

Here's a chart on consanguity: http://www.azprobate.com/images/famtree.gif
http://www.answers.com/topic/consanguinity gives a definition

Step siblings can marry in some states but not in others
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Postby GhostontheNet » Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:31 pm

AnimeHeretic wrote:Let's see: The legal term for this is consanguity, and it limits who can be married in a certain degree of blood relation

Here's a chart on consanguity: http://www.azprobate.com/images/famtree.gif
http://www.answers.com/topic/consanguinity gives a definition

Step siblings can marry in some states but not in others
"Consanguinity"? Yeah, considering the fondness of the law to use technical terms to banish unpleasant ambiguity, that makes sense.
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Postby Mangafanatic » Wed Sep 07, 2005 5:42 am

Gypsy wrote:Yeah, I'm just really glad that I caught the "so no blood relation," bit when he was in the police station. :sweat:

Of what is this show of which you speak? :lol:
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Postby termyt » Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:17 am

Every individual case has it's own circumstances. I can think of cases where it would be OK and cases where it wouldn't. I think you should consider several things before deciding what is right.

The main reason for the prohibition is basically because of the probability for birth defects when close relations have children. There is also a social aspect of the prohibition as well, so with that in mind:

How long have you been step-siblings? The longer you have been related that way, the big the problems you will encounter both from family and friends and from your own emotions.

Do you / have you ever considered this person to be like a real sibling? Does your parent consider this person to be like their own child? If so, you risk alienation and emotional trauma for you and your family.

I just think that anyone who is considering dating their step sibling should be very careful and consider the consequences before proceeding.
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Postby mechana2015 » Wed Sep 07, 2005 11:19 am

The family tree would look wierd... adopted or not, if there are loops in it. I don't think that there's anything inheritly wrong with an ADOPTED sibling it would be EXTREMELY awkward getting a marriage liscenceand explaining to your kids why they only have one set of grandparents (unless the parents knew their biological parents).
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Postby the_lizardqueen » Wed Sep 07, 2005 11:51 am

Of what is this show of which you speak?

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Postby Artist4Jesus89 » Thu Sep 08, 2005 8:57 am

AnimeHeretic wrote:Depends... in most states in the US and in many countries, marriage to a first degree cousin is illegal

In most, marriage to a second degree cousin requires special procedures

Third Degree cousins is mostly legal

i know some people who are like 1st or 2nd cousins and they are married and have a very smart boy but still...
I think that her dad is like his uncle and his mom is like her aunt or visa-versa
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Postby TheMelodyMaker » Thu Sep 08, 2005 10:42 am

For some odd and strange reason, The Brady Bunch comes to mind when looking at this thread. ^_^;;; *runs away*
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Postby Christian_Shugo » Thu Sep 08, 2005 2:22 pm

There was a show were this guy goes back in time and he sees hes grandma and she was really hot and to sum it up hes his own grandpa. Now that would be strange.

Now back to the question. I think pray about it because some might need to and others might not.
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Postby Mr. SmartyPants » Thu Sep 08, 2005 2:23 pm

[quote="TheMelodyMaker"]For some odd and strange reason, The Brady Bunch comes to mind when looking at this thread. ^_^]

:lol: haha you made me chuckle there
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Postby Little T-chan » Thu Sep 08, 2005 2:37 pm

When I first read Marmalade Boy, the relationship in there was like this. And I personally just freaked out! Like AHH!! OHHH! OMIGOODNESS GRACIOUS! WHOA~ But then, they're not blood-related..and it's not their fault their parents suddenly decided they love each other and must be bonded with the legal documentation and traditional ceremony. So...yeah~ teehee<3
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Postby Eriana » Thu Sep 08, 2005 2:57 pm

starstoryteller wrote:Would it be considered incest :wow!: if you married your step-sibling? :?:


I wouldn't marry into your own branch of family members if I were you. It just makes things harder and kind of strange. But if the Lord is telling you (and your absolutely sure) then it would be alright, He knows everything and everyone so it all really lies in his capable hands.
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Postby SailorDove » Fri Sep 09, 2005 12:22 am

I'm not sure on it being right, but to throw in more confusion. Wasn't Abraham & Sarah step brother & sister?
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Postby starstoryteller » Fri Sep 09, 2005 7:10 pm

aw I just wanted to get other people thoughts on the subject.
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Postby Yojimbo » Fri Sep 09, 2005 9:38 pm

LeaChan-4ever wrote:i know some people who are like 1st or 2nd cousins and they are married and have a very smart boy but still...
I think that her dad is like his uncle and his mom is like her aunt or visa-versa


Then they're directly related and that's just not right.
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