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Postby the_lizardqueen » Sun Aug 07, 2005 11:40 pm

Eh, if it's any consolation, flirting is pretty much a foreign language to me. Lessee, when I was fourteen, I beamed a hamburger box off of a guy's face at McDonalds only to later learn from my friends that the the foodfight was supposed to be 'flirty' rather than competitive and violently agressive :eyeroll:

Ack, and then there was that guy who went out of his way to request a drawing from me last year, and he kinda came back in after his group of friends had left to give me his cell number. To quote 'give him a call' if I ever got around to the picture', which I didn't, and I never called him. My one friend swears he was flirting, though I'm still rather confuzzled over that one..

Flirting is so complicated, my brain tends to fizzle and crash whenever I try it. Either that or I end up thinking I sound so ditzy and fake that I have the overwhelming desire to smack myself upaside the head.
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Postby Joshua Christopher » Mon Aug 08, 2005 12:14 am

Just my personal opinion: I don't like flirting, I find it a bit rude. Though luckily no one does with me, nor do I to anyone else.

Just an opinion. : )
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Postby Josh Fisher » Mon Aug 08, 2005 12:33 am

Its wierd for me, I flirt when I dont mean to, which is kinda how some people say is the way me and my current and wonderful Gf got together, but I dont think so.
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Postby holysoldier5000 » Mon Aug 08, 2005 5:12 am

I’m just joking around with this silly story that happened to me. Actually I am so ignorant in the Relationship department that I don’t even know what exactly flirting is????? But seriously I believe good strong relationships are built upon two people being good friends at first. The two people have to like each other before they can truly love each other. & The emotional side, the biological stimuli that produce the “googllieyesâ€
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Postby mastersquirrel » Mon Aug 08, 2005 5:56 am

I personally agree with Impact. I think flirting is rather rude, though I can personally never tell if a girl is doing so.

However, your story reminds me quite of myself HS5000. Last year during the first semester of my senior year I had the most awkward lunch break ever. I hung out with a group of Christian friends that included guys and gals and it just so happened that in my lunch break this semester none of the guys from my group were in there with me, but all of the girls were.....

The first week or so was torment because I had no idea what to say and I am shy (except when I'm goofing off). But as time wore on it became easier and easier to talk to them, but mostly I listened. Y'know.... girl talk is really wierd.... ;)

Anyway, I can relate HS.
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Postby Sakura15 » Mon Aug 08, 2005 6:08 am

[quote="mastersquirrel"]I personally agree with Impact. I think flirting is rather rude, though I can personally never tell if a girl is doing so.

However, your story reminds me quite of myself HS5000. Last year during the first semester of my senior year I had the most awkward lunch break ever. I hung out with a group of Christian friends that included guys and gals and it just so happened that in my lunch break this semester none of the guys from my group were in there with me, but all of the girls were.....

The first week or so was torment because I had no idea what to say and I am shy (except when I'm goofing off). But as time wore on it became easier and easier to talk to them, but mostly I listened. Y'know.... girl talk is really wierd.... ]

Girl talk is weird huh? :lol: I think flirting is rude too...it annoys me. :P
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Postby mastersquirrel » Mon Aug 08, 2005 6:13 am

Sakura15 wrote:Girl talk is weird huh?

Yes it is. :lol: The things I heard... The jealousy of the new girl's looks and how all the guys stare at her (which I quickly dealt with by a simple glance at the new girl and a shrug), the problems with their boyfriends, the boys they liked... On and on.... By the end I was good friends with the lot of them because I actually listened. But that doesn't make girl talk any less wierder... :eh:
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Postby Sakura15 » Mon Aug 08, 2005 6:15 am

mastersquirrel wrote:Yes it is. :lol: The things I heard... The jealousy of the new girl's looks and how all the guys stare at her (which I quickly dealt with by a simple glance at the new girl and a shrug), the problems with their boyfriends, the boys they liked... On and on.... By the end I was good friends with the lot of them because I actually listened. But that doesn't make girl talk any less wierder... :eh:


:lol: :lol:
I don't think I've ever talked about being jealous of another girls looks. Who cares if all the guys stare at her? I dont want guys staring at me anyway :P
I don't have a boyfriend so..obviously I have no problems to talk about :lol:
haha, I guess I don't really talk about any of that stuff.
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Postby mastersquirrel » Mon Aug 08, 2005 6:22 am

You don't? :eh: SEE!? I TOLD you that girl talk was wierd!! :lol:
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Postby Sakura15 » Mon Aug 08, 2005 6:24 am

mastersquirrel wrote:You don't? :eh: SEE!? I TOLD you that girl talk was wierd!! :lol:


:lol: :lol: so..now are you implying that im weird?!?! because I don't talk about that stuff??? :lol: j/k ;)
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Postby mastersquirrel » Mon Aug 08, 2005 6:36 am

[quote="Sakura15"]:lol: :lol: so..now are you implying that im weird?!?! because I don't talk about that stuff??? :lol: j/k ]
What? No! Uh... I was... um.......... SEE! You're messing with my mind! Stop reading in between the lines! There's nothing there! :lol:

Has anyone else noticed that girls enjoy doing that too? Reading between the lines in an attempt to confuse you?
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Postby Mangafanatic » Mon Aug 08, 2005 6:41 am

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Postby Starfire1 » Mon Aug 08, 2005 8:53 am

In my futile past attempts to flirt I end up scaring the crap outta guys instead of getting them intrested in me (they've written notes and come and told me that I was just creepy, but I'm not! really! I'm just sort of different, or I actually am just that bad at flirting) And in the case that a guy happens to be flirting with me I fail to catch on. So for now I'm just trying to let whatever happens happen. Just plain talking without ulterior motives seems to work the best.
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Postby Yojimbo » Mon Aug 08, 2005 9:03 am

mastersquirrel wrote:What? No! Uh... I was... um.......... SEE! You're messing with my mind! Stop reading in between the lines! There's nothing there! :lol:

Has anyone else noticed that girls enjoy doing that too? Reading between the lines in an attempt to confuse you?


All...the...time!:P It's their modus operandi, it's in their nature to do that. What's up is down what's good is actually bad. They ask you a question and you give them answer you thought was fine but oh no!:dizzy: Sorry just gotta rag females out on stuff like that sometimes.;)
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Postby Sakura15 » Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:21 am

mastersquirrel wrote:What? No! Uh... I was... um.......... SEE! You're messing with my mind! Stop reading in between the lines! There's nothing there! :lol:

Has anyone else noticed that girls enjoy doing that too? Reading between the lines in an attempt to confuse you?


:lol: :lol:

Well we do that because...there could be two options to what you're saying, and sometimes we think the wrong option is what you meant, so sorry..didn't mean to confuse you :lol: Oh btw I don't enjoy doing it.....much ;)
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Postby Christian_Shugo » Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:25 am

and girls will be about to say something then say i shouldnt tell you and wasnt really about to say something just wanted to see your reaction. if your really interested or if your even listing. its anoying because i want to know what they were about to say even thought i know its a test
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Postby Sakura15 » Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:26 am

Christian_Shugo wrote:and girls will be about to say something then say i shouldnt tell you and wasnt really about to say something just wanted to see your reaction. if your really interested or if your even listing. its anoying because i want to know what they were about to say even thought i know its a test


Ok, I dont do that lol.
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Postby Christian_Shugo » Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:27 am

good dont start lol
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Postby Sakura15 » Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:28 am

Christian_Shugo wrote:good dont start lol


Didn't plan on it :P
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Postby Pent » Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:43 am

In my futile past attempts to flirt I end up scaring the crap outta guys instead of getting them intrested in me (they've written notes and come and told me that I was just creepy, but I'm not! really! I'm just sort of different, or I actually am just that bad at flirting) And in the case that a guy happens to be flirting with me I fail to catch on. So for now I'm just trying to let whatever happens happen. Just plain talking without ulterior motives seems to work the best.


Well if your not lieing about your age I would be creeped out to if a 3 year old wanted to flirt with me. All though I wouldn't pass them a note because I wouldn't expect they knew how to read. A 3 year old that can read trying to flirt with me. Now that is creepy. Lol. jk.
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Postby Pent » Mon Aug 08, 2005 10:45 am

edit: accedental post sorry mod delete if you want to.
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Postby Shadowchild » Mon Aug 08, 2005 4:31 pm

Christian_Shugo wrote:and girls will be about to say something then say i shouldnt tell you and wasnt really about to say something just wanted to see your reaction. if your really interested or if your even listing. its anoying because i want to know what they were about to say even thought i know its a test


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Postby mitsuki lover » Mon Aug 08, 2005 4:47 pm

Well I find it easiest to flirt when it's with the cashier at B&N or a waitress.
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Postby christianfriend » Mon Aug 08, 2005 4:58 pm

Flirt..what is the "Flirt" You speak of O_o..lol jk. I dont Flirt..I just like to talk! ^-^
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Postby Shadowchild » Mon Aug 08, 2005 5:08 pm

same here. I dont have to mess around for people to notice me... Maybe I should make a tee shirt on this subject... I can see it now... in stores... "Proud to be a Bad Flirt" lol
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Postby Mave » Mon Aug 08, 2005 7:17 pm

Webster says: Flirting is....

2: to behave amorously without serious intent b : to show superficial or casual interest or liking

Gee, you ought to be proud that you can't flirt then. My typical reaction to flirting is of great disgust and contempt. No wonder many guys didn't like me during my college years and neither do I care. ^^
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Postby Alice » Mon Aug 08, 2005 7:48 pm

You should listen to Mave. She smart. :grin:

That first definition is why flirting is so nasty. It's like... cheating. Saying something you don't mean. Someone could get hurt by it, no?
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Postby Ren_sama » Mon Aug 08, 2005 7:51 pm

I can relate. I'm horrible at making conversation. ^_^;
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Postby Ren_sama » Mon Aug 08, 2005 7:52 pm

Mave wrote:Webster says: Flirting is....

2: to behave amorously without serious intent b : to show superficial or casual interest or liking

Gee, you ought to be proud that you can't flirt then. My typical reaction to flirting is of great disgust and contempt. No wonder many guys didn't like me during my college years and neither do I care. ^^

:lol: Haha, I didn't know there was a real definition for flirting. :forehead: You learn something everyday, I suppose
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Postby bbboy21 » Tue Aug 09, 2005 12:25 am

Well I never had a life nor a GF so I really cant help you there.
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