ok so i have been asked, this was a few weeks ago, whether i think it's ok to have sex, after a person is married of course, for pleasure. i said no. i think sex is for having kids...for bringing more life into the world! i mean isn't that what God created that for? i was just wondering if anyone else had the same idea too. if this is to exlicit for this, then by all means lock it...or if it brings up to much of a debate thing, then again i say lock it....but...i'd like to know what others think so...feel free to either PM or IM(AIM=idreamofmyking, or YIM=tripsternick) me. so...am i right? isn't sex only to bring life into the world and not for pleasure?
edit: idreamofmyking: hey do you think it would be possible to put on that one thread i made that i understand now?
"for kids or for pleasure" thread.
editing this, because ctgirl wanted to make it clear that she understands better now.
for kids or for pleasure?
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for kids or for pleasure?
[color="DarkOrange"]"The way I see it, every life is a pile of good things and bad things... hey... the good things don't always soften the bad things; but vice-versa the bad things don't necessarily spoil the good things and make them unimportant." -11th Doctor
"The advice I like to give young artists, or really anybody who’ll listen to me, is not to wait around for inspiration. Inspiration is for amateurs; the rest of us just show up and get to work. If you wait around for the clouds to part and a bolt of lightning to strike you in the brain, you are not going to make an awful lot of work. All the best ideas come out of the process; they come out of the work itself. Things occur to you. If you’re sitting around trying to dream up a great art idea, you can sit there a long time before anything happens. But if you just get to work, something will occur to you and something else will occur to you and something else that you reject will push you in another direction. Inspiration is absolutely unnecessary and somehow deceptive. You feel like you need this great idea before you can get down to work, and I find that’s almost never the case." - Chuck Close[/color]
"The advice I like to give young artists, or really anybody who’ll listen to me, is not to wait around for inspiration. Inspiration is for amateurs; the rest of us just show up and get to work. If you wait around for the clouds to part and a bolt of lightning to strike you in the brain, you are not going to make an awful lot of work. All the best ideas come out of the process; they come out of the work itself. Things occur to you. If you’re sitting around trying to dream up a great art idea, you can sit there a long time before anything happens. But if you just get to work, something will occur to you and something else will occur to you and something else that you reject will push you in another direction. Inspiration is absolutely unnecessary and somehow deceptive. You feel like you need this great idea before you can get down to work, and I find that’s almost never the case." - Chuck Close[/color]
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CDLviking - Posts: 1794
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oh...ok then. ^^;;;; i'll just do PM. *is embarrassed now* sorry 'bout this. ^^;;; but yah whoever has an opinion i'd love to hear it! no one's opinion is worthless! ^^
*goes to hide embarrassed self under covers* ^^;;;;
*goes to hide embarrassed self under covers* ^^;;;;
[color="DarkOrange"]"The way I see it, every life is a pile of good things and bad things... hey... the good things don't always soften the bad things; but vice-versa the bad things don't necessarily spoil the good things and make them unimportant." -11th Doctor
"The advice I like to give young artists, or really anybody who’ll listen to me, is not to wait around for inspiration. Inspiration is for amateurs; the rest of us just show up and get to work. If you wait around for the clouds to part and a bolt of lightning to strike you in the brain, you are not going to make an awful lot of work. All the best ideas come out of the process; they come out of the work itself. Things occur to you. If you’re sitting around trying to dream up a great art idea, you can sit there a long time before anything happens. But if you just get to work, something will occur to you and something else will occur to you and something else that you reject will push you in another direction. Inspiration is absolutely unnecessary and somehow deceptive. You feel like you need this great idea before you can get down to work, and I find that’s almost never the case." - Chuck Close[/color]
"The advice I like to give young artists, or really anybody who’ll listen to me, is not to wait around for inspiration. Inspiration is for amateurs; the rest of us just show up and get to work. If you wait around for the clouds to part and a bolt of lightning to strike you in the brain, you are not going to make an awful lot of work. All the best ideas come out of the process; they come out of the work itself. Things occur to you. If you’re sitting around trying to dream up a great art idea, you can sit there a long time before anything happens. But if you just get to work, something will occur to you and something else will occur to you and something else that you reject will push you in another direction. Inspiration is absolutely unnecessary and somehow deceptive. You feel like you need this great idea before you can get down to work, and I find that’s almost never the case." - Chuck Close[/color]
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c.t.,girl - Posts: 1428
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hah? My opinion, for what it's worth, I think God intended sex to be the most intimate form of expressing love between a man and woman (within wedlock of course) and also, to have children. Sex solely for having children? It kinda puts down the emotional and spiritual part of this union. T_T IMO, ideally, the two should go together but once again, it depends on God and what He wills for each individual (in the sense of whether a married couple should have kids etc)
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Mave - Posts: 3662
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sex is God's gift to married couples. if it was meant only for procreation, it probably wouldn't be pleasurable.
btw, locking this. continue in PMs/IMs/whatever you see fit.
btw, locking this. continue in PMs/IMs/whatever you see fit.
fightin' in the eighties
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