Messenger warning for female members

Postby **Jman** » Thu Jul 08, 2004 4:54 am

This really stinks for the girls anyways.....
Good thing he was banned!
We males will protect you!

Postby **Lehn** » Thu Jul 08, 2004 6:42 am

'true_noir_chloe' wrote:Be smart girls, and don't count on a guy to help you out - count on yourself and use your brains.

Yes, kudos to the guys and all for dusting off the chivalry and good intentions, but speaking from experience, it doesnâ€™t matter how many times a guy swears up and down that they're always going to be there for us when we get in trouble. They're not going to be able to save you from every boogie man out there.

Sorry guys, but it's the truth.

Life is a war ladies]yourselves[/I].

'No' always means 'No'. And if you get into a situation where some slime ball doesnâ€™t understand that--- online or in life--- the strategy is the same: run. Don't think twice about it; just get up and leave.

Postby **true_noir_chloe** » Thu Jul 08, 2004 7:40 am

http://www.childdevelopmentinfo.com/disorders/asperger.shtml

To add to Bob's site, this is a much more explanatory site on Asperger's Syndrome and other neurological disorders we may run into. Unfortunately, because of the way AS affects social interaction and the ability to empathize with others it will cause problems on a site which promotes certain social awareness.

BTW, kudos to Lehn!!!

Postby ***Hope*** » Thu Jul 08, 2004 1:47 pm

Wow! I appreciate the warning. Its also very refreshing to see guys who respect woman. Thanks, it means a lot to us girls. This is a warning I think we all should take. Just be careful, everybody. Satan prowls about like a roaring lion. Arm and guards yourselves, lets pray for our enemies.

Postby **Spirit_Wolf8356** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 8:38 am

Wow, it was really something to come home and see this. But thank you very much for the warning, and thank you for your support, guys. ^_^ I've always been a big advocater of standing on my own two feet, and it's great to see some other girls are with me on this.

Postby **c-girl** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 8:47 am

Spirit_Wolf8356 wrote:Wow, it was really something to come home and see this. But thank you very much for the warning, and thank you for your support, guys. ^_^ I've always been a big advocater of standing on my own two feet, and it's great to see some other girls are with me on this.

Ditto. >^^<

Postby **Heart of Sword** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 9:01 am

Hehehhehe...I messed up a picture of that lady that Vyse posted...anybody want to see it? :evil:

Postby **Xavier249** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 9:03 am

hmmm. . ... sure. It sounds. . . .interesting.

Postby **Heart of Sword** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 9:12 am

Here it is! :lol:

Postby **Xavier249** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 9:20 am

It's about as bad as my Sano avatar, you did notice he has inuyasha ears, right?

Postby **Heart of Sword** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 9:49 am

I didn't know that the insides of Inuyasha's ears were hot pink.....

Oh well. :sweat:

Nah your avatar isn't as scary.

Postby **Xavier249** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 11:01 am

Heart of Sword wrote:I didn't know that the insides of Inuyasha's ears were hot pink.....

Oh well.

Nah your avatar isn't as scary.

oops I forgot that I recolored them yesterday, but before that the color was exact. . . :sweat:

Glad to know that mine isn't as scary. yeesh though yours takes the cake.
I suggest we start a thread of scary pictures of that variety.

Postby **c-girl** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 11:04 am

Lol. >^^< That pic was funny.

My Live Journal · Postby **Saint Kevin** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 2:14 pm

Asperger's huh? Just to be clear, is that what you think could be at work here, or do you know for a fact that the individual has AS?

Also, a have to wholeheartedly second what Chloe has said. Protecting yourself is perhaps the most important thing that you can learn to do. If you're aren't that savvy when it comes to protecting yourself online, just ask some of the more senior female members here for as I'm sure they'd be glad to help you. Also, if something seems the least bit creepy or suspicious, don't hesitate to get a second opinion (privately) from some of the women here.

And for the record, I'm kinda tired of the guys saying (In the most deep and booming superhero voice they can muster) "Don't worry, I'll protect you!"
Seriously guys if that was all you had to add, just do it when the opportunity presents itself rather than spamming up the thread.

Also I must agree with what Ashley said by backing it with scripture.
[quote="Romans 12:17-21"]17 Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men.
18 If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.
19 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath]

[quote="Deuteronomy 32:35"]Vengeance is Mine, and recompense]

[quote="Proverbs 25:21-22"]21 If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat]

Postby **Heart of Sword** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 2:17 pm

We SHOULD start a new thread! Yay!

Postby **Xavier249** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 5:10 pm

Saint Kevin wrote:And for the record, I'm kinda tired of the guys saying (In the most deep and booming superhero voice they can muster) "Don't worry, I'll protect you!"

If I remember right, I didn't say the "don't worry, I'll protect you" bit. I said "Prayer is currently my best weapon." That said, Yes I agree with you on this part. It sounds nice, but its a promise that can't be fulfilled. Yes, we will protect when we are given the chance, but we aren't there 24/7(and probably shouldn't be) so we should do what we can.

Guys I recommend a solid prayer life, its the least we can do. Through the hands of God we can triumph as Soldiers of Christ.

I would recommend that, yes, the women here rely on themselves for the most part but to trust in one guy specifically; God. Only He can truly say, "Don't worry, I'll protect you." After all, He's only a prayer away.

Postby **Madeline** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 5:51 pm

Ha! *grabs sword*
I will pelt you with Bible verses!

O_o Well, he wasn't sick enough to pick on me...so far...
By the way, thanks for your assurance; guys; but as Chloe stated, it's our choice alone whether we are going to take action, or be stalked to death.
Unfortunately for the stalkers, that isn't going to happen here. :grin:

Are you with me?
I say we give them the boot! :bootout:

Postby **Kisa** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 6:35 pm

This is scary *shudders and hides behind respectable male members*
I don't wanna have to run from ppl on CAA!

Postby **Yojimbo** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 8:28 pm

I'm sure you ladies will make it through this.

Just be alert and tell this person off if they send you a questionable PM.

My livejournal · Postby **Zedian** » Sat Jul 10, 2004 8:37 pm

May this stalker not come around again, I'm sure if you none of you ladies here associate with this person they'll eventually just leave. Don't give in to their games, rather this is an act they are sincere about or rather it's just somebody from another messageboard playing pranks on us. As if we don't get enough of those.....

Just be strong and don't worry aboud hiding, if he comes near you just smack him upside the head or shove a foot in his mouth.

Postby **Bobtheduck** » Sun Jul 11, 2004 8:29 am

Saint Kevin wrote:Asperger's huh? Just to be clear, is that what you think could be at work here, or do you know for a fact that the individual has AS?

Look up "aspergers" in the search... You'll see one of Bemanisuperstar's threads. He is the one who told all of us that he had it. So, I guess I'm just taking his word on it.

Postby **snowyangel** » Sun Jul 11, 2004 9:14 am

I have contacted the staff members of CF..I'm a member their too..because i know thier are people here who are members thier too

Postby **shooraijin** » Sun Jul 11, 2004 1:51 pm

> He is the one who told all of us that he had it.

Actually, it seemed like he was trying to get *away* from the diagnosis, but it's a barely academic point regardless.

Postby **Heart of Sword** » Sun Jul 11, 2004 2:09 pm

I don't know about the banning...that's a tricky situation.

I could recommend something but I'll PM Ashley about it.

Postby **Bobtheduck** » Sun Jul 11, 2004 8:20 pm

shooraijin wrote:> He is the one who told all of us that he had it.

Actually, it seemed like he was trying to get *away* from the diagnosis, but it's a barely academic point regardless.

Oops... All I remember was that he said something about being diagnosed... I guess I should have looked more carefully. Of course if he WAS diagnosed, my point still stands. Sorta.

Postby **Jasdero** » Sun Jul 11, 2004 9:45 pm

thereverend wrote:maybe this poor guy is lonely you are all bad chrsitians for not letting him find love here you should all rot in hell

that's not very nice. :sniffle:

snowyangel wrote:I have contacted the staff members of CF..I'm a member their too..because i know thier are people here who are members thier too

What's CF?

Postby **uc pseudonym** » Mon Jul 12, 2004 10:38 am

Most likely, Christian Forums.

Personally, I hope this entire situations will clear up quickly. He's been banned, obviously, but the secondary matters are somewhat annoying.

To Write Love on Her Arms · Postby **ZiP** » Mon Jul 12, 2004 11:05 am

So thi site has, like, stalkers now?
vaugely disturbing.
*looks over shoulder*

Postby **Jasdero** » Wed Jul 14, 2004 3:48 am

uc pseudonym wrote:Most likely, Christian Forums.

Personally, I hope this entire situations will clear up quickly. He's been banned, obviously, but the secondary matters are somewhat annoying.

i see. thanks. ^_^
oh, and i made a DISCOVERY!!! you can't view profiles when you're logged off. so, i guess we're safe as long as he stays banned, and doesn't make a new account... bleh, but it's so easy to make a new account.... my discovery is meaningless... i am ashamed... V_V

Postby **TheMelodyMaker** » Wed Jul 14, 2004 1:48 pm

kirastill wrote:bleh, but it's so easy to make a new account....

Not if he tries to do it from the same IP address. At Anime Angels we can ban both a user name and an IP address, and that would really discourage that person from trying to come back. I'm not sure whether that can be done here or not. (Our mods would know, though.)

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