Yuki-Anne wrote:What's more, I'm not at all comfortable with the popo. I've known quite a few people who've been treated badly by the police for no reason at all. They weren't doing anything wrong, they just happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time, the wrong time being when there was a grouchy, power-tripping police officer.
And now we get into the same problem I was talking about in the atheist thread, which is judging a select few individuals and treating all people in that group as the same. To me saying "A few police treated me badly, therefore I am suspicious of all police" is the same as "A black person treated me badly, therefore I am suspicious of all black people." Which is, well, racist.
I've been treated badly by police before too, when I was in California. I got pulled over by a stupid cop for something that was his own fault, and we got questioned in our hotel room by another cop who was being belligerent and throwing his weight around. But I'd be doing the police force a disservice by assuming all cops are like this.
Just like we feel people are doing Christians a disservice by saying we're all like WBC. I hate to bring them up again, I really do, but honestly, I don't see how you can claim to be offended by people comparing all Christians to those people and then turn around and say all cops are like the few who treated you badly. And if you're not saying all cops are like those few, why would you feel uncomfortable around them?
So, no, I don't trust the police, and if they want to pat me down they'd better have a good reason.
How about "You are about to get on an aircraft that is carrying many other passengers, and we are checking to make sure you don't have anything that could harm or kill them or put the plane in danger"? That's a pretty darn good reason, wouldn't you agree?
Also, where are they examining the pictures? Is it right out there in the open, or in a separate room?
From what I understand it's a separate room, or at least an area where others wouldn't be able to see it. I could be wrong, though. Maybe someone else who knows more than me can say.
If they tried to take naked pictures of me or touch me inappropriately without my consent, it'd be sexual harassment. But now the government wants to do that "for public safety" and it's okay?
Except that they're NOT trying to take naked pictures of you or touch you inappropriately. They're trying to scan you for materials and search you for contraband. This is completely different.
I mean that's like saying that when I was in MEPS and the doctor told me to take my pants off and turn my head and cough, he was sexually molesting me! Except no, he was checking for hernias. It's totally different than if some random dude on the street tried to touch me there.
EDIT: Geez this thread is moving fast! I can barely keep up. x.x
Maybe you don't understand since you're not a woman. I hate to pull the gender card, but I think some guys just don't get how scary it can be to be a woman in a world where a woman can be raped by one police officer than forced by other police officers to state that it was not rape.
Okay, if you want to go there, let me go there too. Maybe YOU don't understand since you're not a man. Do you know how it feels, having women think you're always a potential rapist or sexual assaulter? It's pretty demeaning. Did you hear about the guy in Brazil who was arrested and detained for showing affection to his daughter? Will you ever have to deal with a police officer approaching you in an airport because you're with a young girl and people think you're a child rapist kidnapping her? I bet you won't.
I'm starting to get angry here so I'm going to not continue talking about this, because it will get ugly, and fast. I've probably already said too much.
And it's really not unhealthy to dislike being touched in awkward places by people you don't know. Why would I like that? Why would I like a complete stranger touching me where NOBODY touches me? Who would be comfortable with that?
NOBODY likes being patted down, but it's for safety. The person patting down doesn't (usually) get any joy out of it, and neither do the ones being patted. But guess what? It's not just about you, it's about a bunch of other people on a plane where if you were to smuggle something on, could potentially harm or kill all those OTHER people.
I'm not saying it's unhealthy to dislike being touched by people you don't know, I'm saying it's unhealthy to be paranoid about public safety and health procedures.