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What one quality immediately attracts you to someone of the opposite gender?

Postby Kura Ookami » Fri Dec 01, 2006 5:15 pm

This is a question for everyone. What one quality immediately attracts you to someone of the opposuite gender? I'm asking because I'm interested in what everyone's responses will be as I'm sure ,many people are.
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Postby Raiden no Kishi » Fri Dec 01, 2006 5:52 pm

EDIT: I'm silly.

Immediately? Hrm . . . The quality of being recognized by me as someone who is definitely not normal. I like weird people.

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Postby USSRGirl » Fri Dec 01, 2006 6:03 pm

Fun evilness. If Emperor Palpatine were my age, I would so date him. I find his personality to be electrifying. ^__^
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Postby Warrior 4 Jesus » Fri Dec 01, 2006 6:28 pm

Well nothing immediately, attraction isn't immediate. But I would say an interesting personality - someone funloving but who you can also have deeper discussion with.
Physically I'm attracted to girls with spunky type hair but the eyes are also an important factor.
Really just someone you can be real with. I don't know.
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Postby carneman » Fri Dec 01, 2006 7:43 pm

she has to be as crazy as me. that is very important.
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Postby Sing_Praise16 » Fri Dec 01, 2006 8:21 pm

He has to smile just as much as I do. [:
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Postby Warrior 4 Jesus » Fri Dec 01, 2006 9:12 pm

A girl who isn't 'fake', (and is ofcourse a committed Christian).
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Postby Icarus » Fri Dec 01, 2006 9:34 pm

An air of frailty, That being said, if that's all there is, I'll stick around to make sure they're okay, but look to date someone else.
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Postby Tidus20 » Sat Dec 02, 2006 4:22 am

Has to acknowledge me.

(Not many people.)
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Postby K. Ayato » Sat Dec 02, 2006 8:18 am

Sincerity. I can't stand people who, after you've known them, show their true colors and you find out they'd been fooling you all that time.
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Postby Mr. SmartyPants » Sat Dec 02, 2006 8:21 am

Personally, I would say one that has a cute face and hair. (On the physical scale)
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Postby Puguni » Sat Dec 02, 2006 8:27 am

An engaging, unique personality first, and physical attraction second.
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Postby mitsuki lover » Sat Dec 02, 2006 11:17 am

Well first off she has to be breathing!

To be serious now,she has to be sweet.
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Postby Agent Anderson » Sat Dec 02, 2006 12:13 pm

Immediately: weight (not lack of it).

Longer than 2 seconds: A love for God, and "the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight" (1 peter 3:4)
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Postby Yumie » Sat Dec 02, 2006 4:01 pm

Well, for whatever immediate attraction counts for, I tend to be most immediately attracted to guys with nice eyes. In the long run that doesn't matter to me much at all, though. I find that the guy's heart for Christ and attitude toward others is what really attracts me. And I also find that guys who I didn't think were attractive originally, when they prove themselves to be God-and-people-loving, seem to become immensely more attractive physically too. And just the opposite-- guys who I think are very attractive originally can seem to become even physically ugly when their attitude proves ugly. Not that you asked about any of that, ha ha, but for some reason it seemed weird to me to make a post about what immediately attracts me to someone when I ultimately put very little stock in immediate attraction. :-P
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Postby Stephen » Sat Dec 02, 2006 4:25 pm

Hmm. As far as a physical thing, eyes. As far as attitude, I like people who are opinionated. Honesty too.
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Postby Doubleshadow » Sat Dec 02, 2006 4:40 pm

Nothing attracts me to males immediately, very little attracts to them at all.
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Postby Warrior 4 Jesus » Sat Dec 02, 2006 4:47 pm

So you want to be a nun?
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Postby Doubleshadow » Sat Dec 02, 2006 4:53 pm

Warrior 4 Jesus wrote:So you want to be a nun?


I have given it very serious thought, I'm just not Catholic.

And that wasn't meant to be a slam (my guy friends in real life get miffed when I say that until I explain myself), I honestly have little or no interest in guys. It might get better as I get older, when hopefully, my male peers gain some maturity. Right now, way too many of my male acquaintances seemed to have stopped mentally maturing around age three.
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Postby Warrior 4 Jesus » Sat Dec 02, 2006 4:55 pm

You have to be Catholic to be a nun? I didn't know that.

Not all guys act like 3 year olds. Just hang in there. You may be called by God to be single. God Bless mate.
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Postby Radical Dreamer » Sat Dec 02, 2006 5:15 pm

Hmm...

Well, personality-wise, someone who makes me laugh. And not like, someone who has to be the center of attention to do so, either.

Physically though, I'd say facial features or eyes or something. XD
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Postby ducheval » Sat Dec 02, 2006 5:20 pm

Lutherans/Anglicans/Episcopals all have nuns! Possibly other smaller denominations, but those for sure.
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Postby Dante » Sat Dec 02, 2006 5:29 pm

A beautiful mind...

Yes, I love a lady who finds the universe to be a fascinating and enthralling place... Enough so to dedicate disturbing quanties of time to the study of the most abstruse esoteric phenomena within it... hopefully such subject is also profound as well, like the meaning of dark matter and energy, what psi means in the shrodinger (SP) equation and tensor analysis... if I could find someone with the last quality that would be really great, because tensors cause me a lot of trouble and stand as my first real obstacle to a full education on General Relativity.

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Postby Yahshua » Sat Dec 02, 2006 6:31 pm

First maybe the Physical attraction.
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Postby That Dude » Sat Dec 02, 2006 6:46 pm

As far as the physical part...Well the face. And personality and all the other stuff that goes along with that...Honesty, levelheadedness, caring, fun, and a hint of craziness. (I find that I usually initially go for people that are a little more on the opposite end of the insanity scale than I.)
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Postby AngelSakura » Sat Dec 02, 2006 7:27 pm

Hips. Or hair.
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Postby SpikeSpiegel306 » Sat Dec 02, 2006 7:32 pm

Smile.
Pretty much the face area in general.
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Postby Mr. SmartyPants » Sun Dec 03, 2006 12:44 am

Pascal wrote:A beautiful mind...

Yes, I love a lady who finds the universe to be a fascinating and enthralling place... Enough so to dedicate disturbing quanties of time to the study of the most abstruse esoteric phenomena within it... hopefully such subject is also profound as well, like the meaning of dark matter and energy, what psi means in the shrodinger (SP) equation and tensor analysis... if I could find someone with the last quality that would be really great, because tensors cause me a lot of trouble and stand as my first real obstacle to a full education on General Relativity.

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Postby That Dude » Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:24 am

I'd definately like a girl like Pascel described.
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Postby Mr. SmartyPants » Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:36 am

That Dude wrote:I'd definately like a girl like Pascel described.

Yes, such a girl would be certainly enthralling and enjoyable to fall in love with. :lol:

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