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Postby Chibi_wolf454 » Thu Nov 30, 2006 4:16 am

I was dumped last night by my boy friend. T^T We had been together for three months and then he comes to me saying that I'm more like a sister to him and her realy only stayed with me this long to see how it would work out. To make matters worse he then tells me that he realy loves another girl who he had been realy good friends with. T^T My heart is broken......
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Postby fairyprincess90 » Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:24 am

awww dear i know what its like V.V
except my guy was a jerk and told me over Instant Messaging ... >.>
and he hasn't talked to me since.
i'm sorry and i share your pain.
cheer up though! i dont like to see people sad.

God loves you! ^_^ remember that!

i hope you feel better.
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Postby Raiden no Kishi » Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:45 am

I'm sorry that it hurts, but look on the bright side. Friendships are better at our ages anyway.

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Postby termyt » Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:02 am

I'm sorry. I hope you recover quickly. Breaking up, I think, is an important part of the process. It's probably good not to get too serious about anyone in high school. I always that it a bit silly how the "teen romances" always seem to treat every date as a potential life mate. But then again, what do I know. I'm not exactly successful in that realm. No amount of reason or logic heals a broken heart anyways, so I refer to my first two sentences and shut up.
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Postby Sammy Boy » Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:04 am

* Hands Chibi Wolf a cup of hot Green tea *
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Postby Kura Ookami » Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:10 am

I'll pray for you chibi_wolf. :)
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Postby ChristianKitsune » Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:46 am

aww! that isn't cool!

I wish I new what to say, but unfortunately I am not a big expert in this department..^^;
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Postby mitsuki lover » Thu Nov 30, 2006 12:11 pm

Welcome to The Real World.This tends to happen a lot and never gets any more comfortable or easier the 51st time than the first time around.For now simply just
sit down have a nice long cup of cocoa and listen to some sad music.
Btw:The worse part is when they say'I like you as:a)a friend,b)a brother(for guys
getting dumped by girls or c)a sister(for girls getting dumped by guys)'
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Postby Wind » Thu Nov 30, 2006 2:35 pm

Umm... I just want to say love you Chibs and I am totally here for you if you need to talk and everything

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Postby Tsukuyomi » Thu Nov 30, 2006 3:33 pm

[Hugs Chibi-Chan]- Grrrrrrr........ some guys have the nerve >_< Thant's why when I get in or even before I get into a relationship I make sure to tell him if there's any reason why your feelings change for me, then please tell me! Just don't stop talking to me!

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Postby SP1 » Thu Nov 30, 2006 4:17 pm

Well, this is obviously a bad thing, but at least there were a few bright spots: 1) he broke up with you in person, and 2) he only waited 3 months. Like someone said below, he might have text'd you. At least he has some character.

Try not to let hate creep into this, either for him or the other girl. If you do that, then his problem becomes your problem. Instead, try to fill this new void with God's Holy Spirit. You'll probably have some extra time on your hands now, so do some volunteer work or catch up on school stuff. Just avoid being idle.

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Postby Yumie » Thu Nov 30, 2006 4:48 pm

I'm sorry, girl! I hope God will bring good from it!
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Thou my great Father, I Thy true son;
Thou in me dwelling, and I with Thee one.

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Thou my soul’s Shelter, Thou my high Tower:
Raise Thou me heavenward, O Power of my power.

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May I reach Heaven’s joys, O bright Heaven’s Sun!
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Postby heero yuy 95 » Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:07 pm

Try to find the best in everything. I mean, hey, at least you two are still friends. ^__^ When i broke up with my gf, we argued until our friendship deteriorated to nothing. And just remember, if it's not him, God has someone even better in store for you. Take care, kiddo. Never lose a sense of optimism
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Postby Ashley » Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:24 pm

Wow, I'm so sorry to hear this. I've been on the recieving end of this twice (once after 6 months!) and this is never easy to deal with.

Take comfort in that time really does heal all wounds. While it seems so raw and painful right now, like your heart is going to burst any moment, it WILL get better. Slowly but surely, your heart will heal and you'll learn to trust again.

In the meantime, however, know that it's totally okay to feel hurt and disappointed. Relationships are NOT to be taken lightly. Know, too, that having a few broken relationships behind me really helped me treasure the one that has worked out, and also, those times when I was so broken and hurt and raw...those were the times I leaned wholly on God like I hadn't before. He comforted me in such a real, powerful way that I can look back on it and see it as one of the best things that ever happened.

Remember He's looking out for you, and has your BEST in His mind. Nothing can remove you from His love, so take heart! Some comfort verses to remember: Romans 8:18, Jeremiah 29:11, Nahum 1:7, Psalm 138:7, Psalm 23:4, Matt. 5:4, John 14:18, 2 Cor. 1:3-4, Ps. 119:38.
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Postby jon_jinn » Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:35 pm

If I sound like a jerk in this post, forgive me, but…what’s the POINT of dating someone at the age of 15? I mean, what does someone have to gain when they have a boyfriend (or girlfriend) at such a young age? So you get to hug each other. Hold each other’s hands. Talk with each other more freely. And people say that you are officially “going out with someoneâ€
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Postby Angel37 » Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:41 pm

Aw, hun *hugs*. And right before Christmas too! Well just take comfort in the fact that God has someone way better for you! I'll be praying and if you need someon e to talk to, feel free to pm me.
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Postby Peregrine » Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:44 pm

well, I agree with jon_jinn belief wise, but I don't really think now is the time to talk about it, nor was that the gentlest way to put it. I feel so sorry for you, and I encourage you to lean on the lord and know that "this too shall pass" :)
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Postby Nate » Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:58 pm

While I agree that she shouldn't have been dating at 15, to put it like that is rubbing salt in the wound, so to speak. Right now she needs support.
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Postby USSRGirl » Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:05 pm

Aw, sorry Chibi! I remember you posted about him on another thread... I partially agree with Nat (If I call you Nat will you change you username to gnat?) and Jon Jinn. The guy was obviously too immature to be dating if he flippantly broke it off after three months. You're young and let's be honest... teen 'relationships' never last. I know you still feel sad and companionship is important at any age, but don't be too down because of it. He should've just been honest with you to begin with, and doesn't deserve to be your boyfriend if he's not. I'm not saying tack his picture on your wall, throw darts at it, and mutter evil curses (though I find this highly satisfying sometimes >.>) either. You can still do things together and get along as pals.
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Postby Tommy » Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:09 pm

mitsuki lover wrote:Welcome to The Real World.This tends to happen a lot and never gets any more comfortable or easier the 51st time than the first time around.For now simply just
sit down have a nice long cup of cocoa and listen to some sad music.


Wow, harsh much?

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Postby fairyprincess90 » Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:19 pm

c'mon people! alot of you are being really.. rude about it!
this poor girl is broken hearted!!!!
i really think its fine to date at 15!
poorgirl!
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its a hard time! give her some encouragment!
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Postby Tenshi no Ai » Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:50 pm

I too, have been there before a few times myself. Well, much different situations than that, but still, same hurt... I'll be praying for you, and as others have said, this is totally the time to come closer to God... Let Him be your focus through all this^^
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Postby Alice » Thu Nov 30, 2006 11:08 pm

The hurt is real no matter what.

Don't let anyone tell you you shouldn't feel how you do.

It will get better.

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Postby agasfas » Fri Dec 01, 2006 12:06 pm

Sorry to hear about that, I can understand how it feels.

As bad as it sounds, at least he was honest about his feelings. He didn't drag out the relationship, which would have caused more hurt feelings. Relationships need to be equal sharing of feelings both ways. You deserve that too, and you will one day find that. Things like this help make us stronger and understand what qualities we really should look for in another.

It is never easy- but we are all here to support ya. I hope you feel better soon.
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Postby Sing_Praise16 » Fri Dec 01, 2006 12:34 pm

I'm not going to be the one to tell you that I know exactly what pain you're experiencing simply because I don't; but I am going to be the one to tell you that God loves you. That will never change. God had made that special someone especially for each and every one of us—we all just haven’t been lucky enough to come upon that person in our lives yet. It's all in God's time. Don’t worry, though. I am sure you are surrounded with individuals that love and cherish you for who you are and everything that you have to offer. [:

Ask God for guidance and healing. He will surely give it to you. <3
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Postby Chibi_wolf454 » Fri Dec 01, 2006 4:57 pm

Aww thank you you guys I love you so much *Sniffle* T^T You are all so wounderful!!!!
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Postby fairyprincess90 » Fri Dec 01, 2006 5:14 pm

no problem!
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