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a friend of mine just told me they OD'd on drugs last night... its an online friend, but I've talked to her cusion on the phone and she's not picking up... I don't know what do do.

I'm not sure there's anything you can do. Sorry to be so negative, but-- you know, since it's an internet aquaintance (or that's what I believe you're saying) you can't really go to her house and see if she's okay.

So, Pray.

Vyse wrote:a friend of mine just told me they OD'd on drugs last night... its an online friend, but I've talked to her cusion on the phone and she's not picking up... I don't know what do do.

I am sorry, but i saw your note about your friend, please don't let her, or him ever die, please do whatever you have too, i saw this, and had to come back, and say, do whatever you have too, for your friend---please--don't let your friend die, please don't give up, i know i said i wasn't going to come back, but i just had to logged in one more time, and say don't give up on her friend---do whatever you have too--this is a must---do whatever, you have too!!!!! If anybody deserve to die, it's me---not your friend---I WILL TAKE YOUR FRIEND'S PLACE, I WILL TAKE MY LIFE, WO SHE OR HE WILL LIVE!!!!!! forgive me for coming back< i just had to when i saw!!!!!! I AM SORRY!!!!

Lonelyone, PLEASE do NOT kill yourself.

Btw. I managed to get in contact with her cusion, she said she'd be home in about two hours...

Well, you should la him down on a bed, and lay his head on its side so he doe'snt choke on his own vomit. That might just be for drunk, I think it depends on what he OD's on exactly.

Lonely one, taking your life isn't going to make anything better for anyone, not you, not Vyse's friend, not your friends, or your family. That's a bad road to go down, and I hope that you won't decide to take it. Stay alive. There's so much more God can do through you that way.

Vyse, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll be praying for you and your friend, and hoping that everything turns out alright.
-Water-bearer

2 wrongs dont make a right, lonelyone. Especially a wrong the magnitude of suicide!! In this case, 2 wrongs makes 3 wrongs. SO DONT DO IT. God isnt going to do anything good because of human sacrifices, I can tell you that.

I will pray fervently about both potential suicides in this thread... suicide is something that really tears me up emotionally... just the though of someone doing it to themselves. I cant put it into words really... just whenever I think of someone committing suicide I feel a really strong love for that person and the idea that I want to do whatever I can to make sure they dont throw themselves away in such a horrible, wasteful, and sinful manner. I agree with the things lonelyone said up till the sentence with the all-CAPS part. Vyse, if you think there is anything you can do to help your friend situation, I know that you'll do it.

I'm praying for these people involved - for wisdom and peace. I have a great familiarity with this sort of situation, so I know how you feel, Vyse, that you have to do whatever you can, even if you only know the person through the computer. I pray that God will use you or another to help this situation and that things will work out to His glory. Maybe you should put this in the Prayer thread? God be with you.

Vyse wrote:Lonelyone, PLEASE do NOT kill yourself.

Btw. I managed to get in contact with her cusion, she said she'd be home in about two hours...

Do not worry about me, at this time your friend is more important at this time, i am at the bottom of the list, your friend is at the top of the list, right now all that matters IS YOUR FRIEND, DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT=your friend, you need to conatractses on you friend right now---not me, your friend tooked things, i do not know the story, but what i do know is your friend is HURTING DEEPLY, and like i said before do whatever you can----I KNOW IT'S INSIDE OF YOU-----please find it yourself, and than help your friend---I BELIEVE YOU IN, AND SO DOES OTHERS!!!!!!!!

lonelyone wrote:Do not worry about me, at this time your friend is more important at this time, i am at the bottom of the list, your friend is at the top of the list, right now all that matters IS YOUR FRIEND, DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT=your friend, you need to conatractses on you friend right now---not me, your friend tooked things, i do not know the story, but what i do know is your friend is HURTING DEEPLY, and like i said before do whatever you can----I KNOW IT'S INSIDE OF YOU-----please find it yourself, and than help your friend---I BELIEVE YOU IN, AND SO DOES OTHERS!!!!!!!!

Thank you Lonely one, but all life is scared to me, her's, your's everyone, I don't know you very well, but I consider you a friend of mine, and you know what? I know that she would want you to stay alive too, the old cliche "misery loves company" isn't true you know? The way to defeat misery is look beyond it and look at the good in life.

Vyse wrote:Thank you Lonely one, but all life is scareded to me, her's, your's everyone, I don't know you very well, but I consider you a friend of mine, and you know what? I know that she would want you to stay alive too, the old cliche "misery loves company" isn't true you know? The way to defeat misery is look beyond it and look at the good in life.

As long as you stay in her LIFE---things will work out, for both of you---you sound like a good friend to her, and she is LUCKY, THAT SHE HAS YOU, AND YOU HAVE HER, i do not know the background of your friendship, but it can last a long time, and be A STRONG friendship, please tell her to lean on YOU, when times get ROUGH, and she needs to let you more into her life, somehow do something together, if you live close you can, and if not, there is always the telephone, and also the internet, maybe pray together at a certain time, or watch a tv show at a certain time--- with your mind, i am sure that you can think of something--after all you really care for her, you have shown that for a FACT---you do not want her to die, people here know that now, that you are a very caring person, i hope that you see this in yourself--you are SPECIAL to her, and others!!!!! Always remember that!!!!

lonelyone wrote:As long as you stay in her LIFE---things will work out, for both of you---you sound like a good friend to her, and she is LUCKY, THAT SHE HAS YOU, AND YOU HAVE HER, i do not know the background of your friendship, but it can last a long time, and be A STRONG friendship, please tell her to lean on YOU, when times get ROUGH, and she needs to let you more into her life, somehow do something together, if you live close you can, and if not, there is always the telephone, and also the internet, maybe pray together at a certain time, or watch a tv show at a certain time--- with your mind, i am sure that you can think of something--after all you really care for her, you have shown that for a FACT---you do not want her to die, people here know that now, that you are a very caring person, i hope that you see this in yourself--you are SPECIAL to her, and others!!!!! Always remember that!!!!

Vyse---it's lonelyone again, and i just wanted to say, i am not sure why i logged in for you, and your friend, there i was on the internet, i saw your message, and something just came over me, or got a hold of my heart, i am not sure, something happen to me, and i felt, i just could not just sit there, and see you hurting for your friend, i felt i had to do something, i am not sure why, i just did!!!!

i'll pray for you and your friend. lonelyone we are worried about you because we care.

I'll pray for both of you. Lonelyone, nobody wants you to get killed, and it's the same as with Vyse's friend. Trading your life for someone else's won't do anything in this situation; just pray.

Vyse, maybe you should call the police if you know your friend's address. They can take care of him and help him with his drug problem.

[quote="Heart of Sword"]I'll pray for both of you. Lonelyone, nobody wants you to get killed, and it's the same as with Vyse's friend. Trading your life for someone else's won't do anything in this situation]



This is lonelyone--Vyse--i hope things work out dor you, and your friend---Sam-rom---this is get for me---good-bye--my friend--good-bye--take care of yourself--i have to leave i have no choice right now, i must leave, i just have too--i know that killing myself won't help or bring somebody back from the dead, but depending on who the person is, i would take their place, i do not know why i was so upset about Vyse's friend--i do not know why, because my heart is black and cold, and hard, and to the friend of Vyse--please let Vyse into your life more, and let Vyse help you, you have to do your part too, and please let Vyse help you, i beg of you---please.. again good-bye Sam-ron!!!!!!!!!

Vyse wrote:a friend of mine just told me they OD'd on drugs last night... its an online friend, but I've talked to her cusion on the phone and she's not picking up... I don't know what do do.

I know what you're going through... just gotta keep your head up and pray that things will turn out right.
I don't know what the standard procedure is, but the way things went down when my friend OD was that they took her to the hospital, and pumped her stomach, but that depends on what they OD on, because sometimes pumping the stomach makes things worse.
Depending on the patient and the attempt, the patient is under 24-hour surveillance and is strapped down to the bed to keep them from hurting themselves again. That's the scariest part.
My friend was moved to a special hospital a few days after her attmept where they deal with suicide attempts, and they have to go through a series of sessions with a set of doctors to determine what the best course is for the patient.

She was released after a few days, and with any hope your friend will be too.

I’ll be prayin’ for both of you guys.

Lonelyone, your heart's not cold, black, or hard, or else you wouldn't be so worried about Vyse's friend. So don't worry about it. I'll continue to pray for you, and for Vyse's friend.

Vyse--continue your prayers to God to help your friend. Try to get professional help for him/her.

Sword has a point.

Statement withdrawn.

Pray.

Ronin of Kirai wrote:I dunno whats with all this drama but Ill I gotta say is there nothing ya can do but pray.

I'd apprecaite it if you didn't use the word "drama" to describe this, thats very insensitive.

Ronin of Kirai wrote:I dunno whats with all this drama but Ill I gotta say is there nothing ya can do but pray.

Come on, bud. You gotta watch what you say. This is pretty serious, hardly drama. Your statement came off a little rude. I know you didn't intend it to be, but please watch what you post on serious threads like this.

Hey Vyse, I'm really sorry about your friend. A similar thing happened to a firend of mine a couple of weeks ago. I'll be praying for you two.

Vyse wrote:I'd apprecaite it if you didn't use the word "drama" to describe this, thats very insensitive.

I dont mean your situation I mean Lonelyone saying what s/he did about deserving to die in place of your friend

Ronin of Kirai wrote:I dont mean your situation I mean Lonelyone saying what s/he did about deserving to die in place of your friend

Either way its not welcome in my thread, if someone is depressed don't say anything that will push them over the edge.

Vyse wrote:Either way its not welcome in my thread, if someone is depressed don't say anything that will push them over the edge.

understood. ill pM you as I dont like the way this is ending

So.......... errrrrr........ any new news Vyse?

Lehn wrote:So.......... errrrrr........ any new news Vyse?

Well I talked to her cusion in depth over the phone, we both agree that the cure for her is a relationship with Jesus, we just don't know the best way to bring her to Him...

Ronin of Kirai wrote:I dont mean your situation I mean Lonelyone saying what s/he did about deserving to die in place of your friend

Ronin of Kirai---I am so glad you think all of this is a Drama, and that i am a Drama too, please all means have a good laugh on me, i am glad you think i am just a JOKE, i would not want to prive you of anything, on my behalf.I am so glad you think killing myself is a thing from a play---go ahead LAUGH, all you want too, i would not want toever stop you--LAUGH--go ahead, i can't hear you, LAUGH LOUDER, i now know what you all think of me now, i was just a joke to you, and everybody, and now i know i was never anybody friend now---thanks for nothing, you all was just prettending to me my friend, nobody ever meant anything, nobody was ever my friend, thanks for telling me the truth now!!!!! In the Bible, doesn't it say to lay down your life, for your friend, why would i ever want to be a part of CAA MEMBERS ever again!!!!!!

Lonelyone... I tried defending you