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Girlfriend....maybe

Postby Pigeon4x » Mon May 03, 2004 6:02 pm

This was in the prayer request board but I need alot of feedback so I put it here. Anyway:

There is a girl at my school that I really like a lot and she is a friend of mine, but I want the friendship to be something more and I think she does too. I haven't done anything yet because 1. I'm scared it would destroy our friendship 2. I've been praying about it because in my bible class we just finished the chapter about God's perfect timing for everything. I don't know what to do. BTW, she IS christian. I need to know what to do. I almost said something to but I chickened out because a lot of people were around. We're good friends though, everyone thinks that we're dating. I really like her. :?:

I want to tell her before school is out if I do because otherwise we'll be too busy to meet in person and I really don't want to discuss this over the phone. That means I have a week to decide what to do. I'll take any pretty much any advice. :bang:

this is why I think she might like me, but who knows me:

Well when seems happeir when we're together and today I was letting her use my organizer (electronic gizmo similar to a palm pilot but only cost $30) and when I got it back her phone number and e-mail address were in my address book. Almost all of my friends have been trying to get us together and today one of them asked her if she'd like to date me, just out of the blue, I didn't see it and only half believe it but he said she was blushing. A while ago toward the time when we first became friends and one of them did that she would tell them to be quiet and normally send me after them. I never really cared but it seemed to upset her so I told the to stop and they did for a while. A couple of them have started back recently, but she doesn't really answer anymore. Just kind of changes the subject or walks off.
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Postby ZiP » Mon May 03, 2004 6:10 pm

DO NOT under any cirmcumstances allow your friends to ask her this again.
take my word for it. It needs to be you.
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Postby shooraijin » Mon May 03, 2004 6:11 pm

While I sympathize with your predicament, Pigeon, please don't start the precedent of doing multiple threads for a request, no matter how important. People have seen and replied to your original post, and people will still do so, okay?

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