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Am I weird cause I actully make myself unlikible in a relationship sense I mean ?

nope

Nope, not weird. That's actually a fairly common thing that people do.

No, you're not weird; but it is potentially a problem. I find myself doing this too often. Since it is easier to sabotage a relationship than to make it work, we make ourselves unlikable.

Either that, or it is just anxiety.

I have no idea if you are weird or not.
I supose I would question why you would enter a relationship with the intent of "sabotage."
Perhaps you could be more spacific.
Though even if you were, I would probaly not think you were weird,
people just deal with things differantly, and for reasons not always known to
every one else.

-kaji

Er. I'm afraid I didnt make myself clear see the point of me doing this is to never get into a relationship in the first place..sorry

I don't think your wierd at all, i think your really funny.

You're not weird, you're special. ^_^

Er. I'm afraid I didnt make myself clear see the point of me doing this is to never get into a relationship in the first place..sorry

Well, I guess if you dont like relationships, then there is nothing weird about trying to avoid them.
But if you liked having relation ships with people, yet still tried to make your self unlikable, then I would question your sanity.

But you seam fine to me. ^^

-kaji

Not weird, just special and funny.... riiiiight

Actually I'm not quite sure what your talking about... what behavior is it that you use ot keep yourself from being 'liked'?

Hey, your wierd, I'm wierd... lets be friends ^_^

Anyhow, what do you mean by 'I don't want to make relationships'?
Do you mean friends,boy/girlfriends or something else? Or have I completely missed the point here...
...but on a lighter note, I think ur pretty kool Ronin! Your replys are always lighthearted and good fun to read! Keep up the good work! ^_^

Indeed Ronin, you are wierd

just messing with ya. Anyways everyone is wierd at CAA! I'm a Loser......For Christ!

Everyone is unique and that is fine. There is really no need to fit anyone’s norm. I would only say, like kaji, that if this avoiding/ending relationships bothers you than do something. If you do not want one, that’s perfectly fine. And who knows people change, you may want something different in the future.

JediSonic wrote:Not weird, just special and funny.... riiiiight

Actually I'm not quite sure what your talking about... what behavior is it that you use ot keep yourself from being 'liked'?

Im in a bad mood all the time, I never show my happiness if I've any, and am anti-social

you're 16, right? i went through the same thing....come to think about it, i'm still going through it...

on a serious note, the fact that you're avoiding relationships by being pessimistic and anti-social, well, it's effective. just don't let it become a way of life. and remember, there's a difference between being who you are, and portraying yourself to the world the way you want to be....

and remember, there's a difference between being who you are, and portraying yourself to the world the way you want to be....

Who would want to be in a bad mood all the time? I dont think ronin wants that at all.. It sounds to me like he is just trying to find some way to stop the greater evil, which is girls.

JediSonic wrote:Who would want to be in a bad mood all the time? I dont think ronin wants that at all.. It sounds to me like he is just trying to find some way to stop the greater evil, which is girls.

ok, here's goes something personal....in high school, i portrayed myself as the pessimistic loner, cuz now that i look back, i wanted people to pity me. i was trying to attract attention.

course, it never worked...

JediSonic wrote:Who would want to be in a bad mood all the time? I dont think ronin wants that at all.. It sounds to me like he is just trying to find some way to stop the greater evil, which is girls.

Girls aren't evil just........semi-evil..But hey guys are also evil or as I like to say when people get hurt by the oppisite sex

"People are stupid"

I say this while looking ONLY at them then I say

"By people I mean you"

Its pretty funny

Yes, girls are evil. *lol* I don't think you're weird. Odd perhaps, but not weird *lol*. God wired us all up differently, so there really is no 'normal'. It does not exisit. *lol*

kirakira wrote:Yes, girls are evil. *lol* I don't think you're weird. Odd perhaps, but not weird *lol*. God wired us all up differently, so there really is no 'normal'. It does not exisit. *lol*

Well said Kirakira there is no such thing as a normal person.

kirakira wrote:Yes, girls are evil. *lol*

People are stupid (see my last post)

Sometimes I say something like "this place smells.. and by smells, I mean bad"

Ronin of Kirai wrote:Im in a bad mood all the time, I never show my happiness if I've any, and am anti-social

I want to start by saying what you're describing to us doesn't make you weird, but it might make you hard to befriend. In the end, you have to determine WHY you're like this. Is it because you're afraid of people, or is it just becasue showing happiness doesn't come naturally to you.

By nature, I'm a happy person. If I had a bullet lodged in my aorta, I'd probably laugh and say "Hey look at that!" I'm just that way. But I have a good friend who is much like you. She tends to be sorta moody and she comes across *** depressed sometimes. It hasn't stopped me from being her friends, and it shouldn't stop the people who truly love you from being your friend.

The only warning I do have for you is that as christians, we're suppose to be joyful. Not a fake, I-have-smile-no-matter-what-happens-to-me happy, but God died in our place and that's something we SHOULD be happy about. This is hard, but it's also important. People in the world need to see that there's something in life to smile about-- and it ain't drugs.

My advice would be to pray that God will give you joy.

Mangafanatic wrote:I want to start by saying what you're describing to us doesn't make you weird, but it might make you hard to befriend. In the end, you have to determine WHY you're like this. Is it because you're afraid of people, or is it just becasue showing happiness doesn't come naturally to you.

I'm pretty sure its because im afraid of people....I remember always trying not to smile even when I had a reason ,as a child.

Mangafanatic wrote:By nature, I'm a happy person. If I had a bullet lodged in my aorta, I'd probably laugh and say "Hey look at that!" I'm just that way.

I'd begin to swear then stop as I know that I would final leave this world in seconds.

I'm like that some of the time. Heck, I've made threads kinda about the same thing. Oh, and Ronin...I checked my Japanese dictionary today, and it said kirai meant 'dislike or distaste', not hate. It said hate was spelled 'kiriu' but who knows...that thing is weird. Beside hate it said 'dislike', so...ah heck, it doesn't really matter.

so im a Ronin of dislike....awww man

so im a Ronin of dislike....awww man

Well, I don't dislike you.



But I"m still a bird

Meh, you're probably just struggling with some very difficult emotions and getting frustrated at yourself and the problems in front of you. It's not really your fault, but it is recommended that you step away from your problems for a while, cool off, and try to just be yourself. You're not purposely doing this, yet you're not stopping yourself either. Also, the person that you become when you become "dislikable" isn't really who you are, and you know this because you've had to live with yourself all your life, stop denying it, you're a nice guy. ; P

Sieg9986 wrote:Meh, you're probably just struggling with some very difficult emotions and getting frustrated at yourself and the problems in front of you. It's not really your fault, but it is recommended that you step away from your problems for a while, cool off, and try to just be yourself. You're not purposely doing this, yet you're not stopping yourself either. Also, the person that you become when you become "dislikable" isn't really who you are, and you know this because you've had to live with yourself all your life, stop denying it, you're a nice guy. ]

How do you know if im a nice guy.......

Lehn wrote: Well, I don't dislike you. But I"m still a bird

I know we can work it out....