Hey! You must be reading the same region of the Bible I am (I'm having similiar questions about these areas as well while I read through these books)...
PERSONALLY, I would more weight on the words of Christ then Paul. Paul started one of the first Christian Churches (whether he was the only one I cannot say, but some of the passages even he writes seem to suggest that there were other variations... I think this is the more likely case). Furthermore, he had an incredible testimony, I'd argue that few people in history have anything close to a testimony that he had (of course once again I could be wrong). That stated, he wasn't God, and the words he says should be given a little freedom to his human side. But he holds a lot of weight in my book all the same...
So far in my readings (and this is only my first time through this so take it at that) I've felt he's trying to get a philosophy accross: The critical idea is not that we can ignore the teachings of God, but that we are not JUSTIFIED by the LAW. Instead we are JUSTIFIED by GRACE. Or so it seems to me...
In other words, we can't be like the pharisees (SP?) who went around using the law to get what they wanted... when they wanted something they'd go to the law and use it like a chemistry set to get the desired outcome they wanted (YAY! FOR THE PERIODIC TABLE OF COMMANDMENTS). If something didn't go their way, they would claim that they were violating the law and that they themselves were suffering as a consequence of it (hence bad things happen to you if you ruffled their feathers). Yet at the same time, they themselves did not follow the law as no person can, so because they were justified by the law in destroying others, the law itself was justified in destroying them at Judgement even more so.
But if one is justified by grace, then one cannot use the law to get what they desire... if someone smacks you on the cheek then you cannot say they violated the law against you because you no longer have the law to be justified by. Instead, you must turn them the other cheek because you feel they should get a second chance and a third and so on... you are justified in doing this not by the law but by the same grace that justifies you in forgiveness of your own sins.
That...
That is a very difficult thing to implement, I am by no means complete in my ability to do what I've just said... hopefully knowing is half the battle. And so that is why I feel it is possibily a correct interpetation (because it seems really hard to do). After all, its easy for us to say we want grace to forgive us of all of our sins but break out the police and lawyers at our neighbor's most minor offense... That is an example of this topic, for in doing so we would be justifying our actions by the law, but hoping that God would be justified in grace in saving us.
At the same time, we are justified by grace in trying to do the right things, because the grace given to us is sufficient that we should want to do it out of love... can we always... I don't know... I know that I haven't... I do know that I don't want to mess up.
Like I said... that also makes it hard. If I justify myself by the law in shooting a thief that enters my house and may do me harm, am I justified by grace in Heaven? Or should I cook him a meal and claim that I know by grace he'll change in time?! You and I can probobly see a lot of immidiate consequences of this that are hard to swallow. And that is what makes it a somewhat cool philosophy... it really gets under your skin! O_O
That stated. Given that I'm not a Biblical Scholar or the most brilliant man in the world, I'm probobly wrong... It is only my first time through this text after all... but I would like to know what my fellow Christians think about the idea all the same without causing any debate. (Of course, because I'm to this point that will soon change
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-Pascal