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warning: i am going on a rant.

GRRRRRR! so theres this guy. who said he liked me. and i find he "likes" other girls. it quite obvious that he's a "ladies man" and it's making me feel unwanted and just another girl and all those feelings.
i am very very VERY angry at him right now!
and i need to vent.

WWWWWWAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
why are 99.99999999999999999999999% of guys jerks? tell me that one.
i'm tired of only finding toads... its like there are no princes out there.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRR.
and i'm really really mad. and i'm mad at myself for ever letting myself ever like him. and i'm stressed. and i'm tired. and and i'm not very happy. and and i'm tired of life and love and i swear i'm never ever going to like anyone ever again

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and everyone hates me right now because i'm so cranky and mad at everyone. i have no friends right now. V.V noone to talk to ... noone to hug me. i feel very used, unwanted, unloved, and cranky.
plus since i've been feeling so stressed i've been eating non-stop and i've gained like two pounds!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! holy mocha! thats terrible!
i havent even reached my goal yet and i'm gaing again!
my life sucks
i'm so mad.! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

so yeah.

noone needs to comment... i'm just throwing a fit.

*pats on shoulder and hugs* Its good to let things out^^.

ROFL, I feel the same way sometimes about the no Prince thing XD. It is difficult, sorry I don't have anything positive to tell you, but I'll pray for you^^.

Aww poor Fp I'm sorry you feel this way...

A seminary professor and a good family friend of mine once told me quite solemnly "All men are jerks, except one. So waiting is a good thing." Once I got over the amusement of hearing that from a 60-year-old man, it made a lot of sense. Yeah, guys can be really frustrating, but be sure that God has the perfect match for you somewhere in your future. After all, you've still got plenty of time.

im sorry you feel that way... if you wannatalk to somebody, pm me, im told im a great listener. and im sad that so many of us are jerks, i do my best not to be one.

yea it is a shame that that guy is such a jerk. but not all guys are that way. If you are 16 like your profile thingy says, then I have bad news for you. you probably won't meet a caring, loving, NON-SELF-ORIENTED, guy for a few years. most guys in high school think that they are on the top of the food chain when they are really at the bottom. they have attitudes and.. well... real [font='Times New Roman']Gentlemen are hard to come by in high school. but so are real Ladies. high school is a very akward and difficult stage in life and the people who say they have perfect relationships there are either darn lucky or lieing. long speech short... have patience, the right guy will come along some day and don't expect him to be from your high school! go out and make some friends or something that is simply fun! your still a young Lady and shouldn't be going through so much stress because of a little boy. believe me, I'm very happily married at the age of 20 and know better than anyone that love is something that will just...simply...happen! Its like lightning![/font]

Don't let him get to you- you are more than capable of finding someone that loves you and wants to be with you. Only you. Perhaps there is some way to vent your anger in a productive way... such as writing poetry, etc.

PM me if you want to rant some more. [:
I'm always willing to listen. <3

PS. Not all guys are rotten.

Yeah, not all guys are bad. I'm not. I've been told I'm very nice. ....but only by girls. Okay, whatever. Don't feel bad, the same thing happened to me with a girl in middle school. She said that she liked me, but when she found out I was moving, I found out she was going out with another guy, and she didn't even tell me until I moved. Evil.

Perhaps you are getting too worked up over it. If he's a ladies man, okay. Is he worth really having or being friends with? Not really. He's rotten, and you understand that. So he's scratched off from your book.

I agree. And I speak from experience that getting attention from a ladies' man feels good while it lasts, but when the blinders are removed, he's really a waste of time and energy. I'm sorry you're hurt, but you'll get over it.

Where are the nice guys?:
The nice guys are all busy at college now, so that they can better provide for their future wives.

not to rub it in or anything but I have found a really nice guy but my mom wouldn't let me date until I was 18 so I had to wait two years before I was allowed to go out with him I think it is better to wait so you don't rush into things that God doesn't want for you

PM me if you want to talk I will listen

fairyprincess90 wrote:i'm tired of only finding toads... its like there are no princes out there.

Unfortunately, speaking from personal experience and that of many others -- it's probably going to feel that way until college or beyond.

There are some really good guys out there... I eventually married one. But I didn't find him until college, and didn't marry him until college was over. I know it's hard to wait for a good guy, but in the meantime, let God work on preparing you for your future husband. He will be preparing your future husband for you, too. If I'd met my husband in high school, we may never have gotten together -- neither one of us was mature enough then.

The reason why most guys are jerks is that old problem called sin. Also there is such a lack of community in our current culture that many many people have no one to set a good example. I'm not excusing their behavior and I'm also not saying that it's all the society's fault but we aren't teaching guys to be MEN. And I'm sorry to hear about your problem...But you'll get over it and even though most likely you'll find Mr. Right...Well God'll will love you and be there for you through ANYTHING!

And if you feel like you need to vent or something you can always feel free to drop a PM.

If this guy really treats women like he does, is he really the guy you wanna be interested in anyways? It sounds like a relation that will eventually be full of heart-ache.

Seriously, not 99.9999% of guys are like that. It's just when we bad things happen to us we like to blame a whole group instead of the individual. It's what people tend to do- over exaggerate things. There are plenty of good guys who treat ladies well. You just gotta just be patient.

Odd as it seems, I think I know what you mean.

Yeah, there are a lot of jerks out there, and unfortunately they seem to get to the girls first. All I can say is that I hope you learn to recognize them early so they don't hurt you more. I know you're hurt right now, but I pray that you get over it and take a lesson from this. Don't trust your heart to just anyone. If you do, odds are that you'll find more jerks before you meet a gentle man.

A friend of mine didn't. Right now, she's figuring out how to deal with me again because, of all things, I'm a guy. Two and a half years of a mustache and deep voice did not tip her off. God bless her.

Heal, and may you find the one for you. Until then, fare well.

No, if 99.99999999999999999999999% of guys were jerks then only 0.00006 men on the Earth would not be jerks, as men only come in integer values, this canot be the case...

most guys aren't able to treat women the way they deserve to be treated until their mid twenties.
that was somewhat paraphrased. i dont remember his name but the guy whos said that spoke at the Girls of Grace confrence this year.

oh beth i love you! i am your friend and all guys have a jerkish nature about them. and most of the time they dont even realizr they are doing anything wrong. theyre just obvlious to the fact that youre upset.
please cheer up.
or i shall have to give you a muffin on wednesday.

i'd like a muffin.

Hands FP a virtual muffin. Eat up!

Chances are that this boy doesnt even understand what it means to like a girl anyway. He probably just thinks he 'likes' every pretty girl that will talk to him. My advice is to not pay much heed untill you know eachother better.

i agree.
i'm over him.
i'm still hurt and upset. and everytime i see him i ache inside but i'm not all BOYS SUCK AND I HAVE NO FRIENDS! anymore ^_^

thanks peeps!

You're welcome. And it'll hurt for a while but you'll get over it soon enough.

fairyprincess90 wrote:i agree.
i'm over him.
i'm still hurt and upset. and everytime i see him i ache inside but i'm not all BOYS SUCK AND I HAVE NO FRIENDS! anymore ^_^

thanks peeps!

Good, Im glad that you are doing a bit better. Its ok to be upset about it, infact, thinking about what made you upset will better help you understand your self and others, as well as be better prepared later on. Going through hurtful times is unavoidable in life, its what we try to learn from those experiances that can make a differance.

Glad you are feeling better.

Don't worry. There are alot of people in this world you can't trust. Ignore him. Later in life, he'll suffer the consequences and realize what he did was wrong. I too have been through this, but thankfully, my TRUE friends comfort me. You can find friends at school, just find the right people. Don't choose cheaters (been through that), gossipers (worse mistake I ever made), liars (ESPECIALLY them), backstabbers, romance-cravers, easily angered people, etc. It's gonna be a bit hard to find a good friend, but just find a quiet person. They don't have to be popular or talkative, but let them be honest and caring. (Not alot of people you're going to find like that, but it's highschool! I'm in it myself!)

awww, poor thing. ^^

I likes you!
and there is a wonderful guy out there just willing to take care of your heart. ^^

not all guys are like that, trust me.

I'd try not to worry about guys you're only 16 right? Do you really need a boyfriend to hang around with you? Just let them be guys. XD
Take care! Glad you vented it all out! lol I love doing that. lol