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have as much trouble talking with girls as me?

carneman wrote:have as much trouble talking with girls as me?

Not me. It's all mental. Girls are people, too. Don't buy into this crazy myth that all men are idiots and all girls are psycho. I have no problem speaking with any of the four genders.

I think it may be your age (I am just guessing)? I was nervous around girls at that age. Once I got to uni my mental and verbal abilities caught up.

I used to, but once I realized no woman would date me to save the fate of the free world, I stopped caring about how I acted around them.

But for someone like you, who has a very real chance at getting married, I'd chalk it up to your age. In my opinion, you're too young to be dating anyway (let's not go down that road in this thread, though XD), so don't worry about it. Get a few more years under your belt and you'll probably be fine. ^^

Yes.

But stop worrying about it. Take my word for it, sounding stupid is better than sounding silent.

I like to say that I have trouble talking to girls, but I really don't. You'll grow out of it.

sounding stupid is better than sounding silent.

It's true. I don't talk to people at school and they think I'm going to gut them in their sleep and blow up the school. What a fun school I have ^^ And I'm not joking either.

Funny how that works. If you don't give people words, they'll generally make them up for you.

It depends.There are two types of females in the world:the ones you are related to such as sisters and cousins,and the others.I suppose you mean the other type of female,since female relatives are easier to relate to since they are your relatives.
Other type of females are harder to relate to simply by the fact that they are other,i.e. they represent the Unknown.This is why it's so durned hard to relate to them because you really don't know what makes them tick,unlike sisters.Sisters are easy to understand.

kaemmerite wrote:I used to, but once I realized no woman would date me to save the fate of the free world, I stopped caring about how I acted around them.

Fool, it's because they aren't good enough for you.

It's different though if you are the only one of your sex in your family.For example there are three of us in my family and I am the only male,so my view of females in general may be a bit different from someone who had brothers or was an only child.Especially since my earliest playmates were my sisters.