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why...?

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 1:10 am
by carneman
why is it that nice guys always seem to finish last? :(

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 1:16 am
by Jingo Jaden
What you mean?

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 4:00 am
by Nate
But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first. - Matthew 19:30

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 6:33 am
by Neko Niisan
kae beat me too it...

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 9:03 am
by Raiden no Kishi
carneman wrote:why is it that nice guys always seem to finish last? :(


That depends. [Goofy answer: because the nice guys need to drive faster cars] What happened?

.rai//

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 2:47 pm
by Linksquest
Yea, we sorta need some more clarification on what you mean when you stated:
why is it that nice guys always seem to finish last?
. But as Kae already stated, essentially last shall be first and first shall be last. Sometimes when nice guys finish last it is because they don't play dirty like "bad guys" and follow the rules.

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 2:58 pm
by Bap
That reminds me of this thing I read on an AD. xD "If nice guys finish last, it's only because they stopped along the way to talk to people."

Or somefin' like that, lawl.

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 8:33 pm
by GhostontheNet
carneman wrote:why is it that nice guys always seem to finish last? :(
It's mostly an illusion, the people who are not nice guys give the appearance of "winning", but their lack of virtue kills whatever they "won" in their dealing with it.

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 8:39 pm
by The Last Bard
Maybe they aren't trying to win...?

PostPosted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 9:48 pm
by Slater
so what happens to the middle man?

PostPosted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 6:31 pm
by batchyik
The Last Bard wrote:Maybe they aren't trying to win...?
that is a good point to point out (excuse the pun). Also, it doesn't helo that quite a few of them like the shallow women/girls that many of my sex abhor. It's not that they don't win--they're running in the wrong direction some of the time.

PostPosted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 6:32 pm
by Heart of Sword
But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first. - Matthew 19:30


That's exactly what I was going to quote. ^^

PostPosted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 12:11 am
by Seppuku
only in the short term, in the long run the nice guys are the happiest.

PostPosted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 4:11 pm
by Alice
Yeah. I agree with Seppuku (and whoever else said it).

In the long run, the nice guys are almost certainly going to be happier.

Why? Because they did the right thing. And because what you do always catches up with you. Sometimes it doesn't until you die, but most of the time, yep, it's gonna catch you. What's that proverbs says? Even a child is known by his actions, by whether his conduct is pure and right. Something like that.

If you're a "on-nice" guy, sooner or later people are going to learn just how far they can trust you. (Not as far as they can throw you?) And things like that take awhile to live down.

PostPosted: Tue Jul 11, 2006 4:18 pm
by TheMelodyMaker
I have yet to fully gather my thoughts on this enough to make an intelligent post, but for now I'll just say that maybe it's possible that the nice guys "finish last" because the Lord works a bit longer and harder in perfecting their character. :)