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my mom defended anime 0_o

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 5:46 pm
by Hitokiri
I was just watching Ghost in the Sehll: Stand Alone Complex when my nani (grandma) visited to bake christmas cookies. However, she was overhearing what was going on in the anime and wanted to see what it was. She obviously didnt like what I was watching and started attacking it. She than saw I weas drawing anime (actually working on a manga) and said I was "perverting the artistic gift God gave me". If it was a anime, you could literally see a sweat drop from me and my mothers head.

My mom then intervened that I'm drawing wholesome anime and after ebing accused of "bringing me up wrong" said she trusts me 100% in what I view. Pkus she commented on saying that anime has some intresting morals such as vowing not to kill in some series as well as keeping your friends first. She told my grandma she'd be extremely proud if I went into that line of work. Well...my nani was obviously flustered by my moms comment and me "perverting my artistic ability by drawing anime" and left. That got a huge surprise cause she's usually behind me 100% and take intrests in what I do. She even bares with my death metal music but that outburst from my grandma really shocked me. Even more so my mother defending anime which at times, views it as bad but she likes some series (Kenshin, Mononoke, Grave of the Fireflies, etc). I have a cool mom :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 6:01 pm
by Mangafanatic
Yeah. Cool anime parents are the best. My parents are starting ot be very cool about it, too. I'm so happy. They really don't question anything I buy anymore. They know they raised me right, and so I suppose they know I'll make decisions based on that. Which I do.

*sigh* It's nice, isn't it?

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 6:07 pm
by Spirit_Wolf8356
Your mom sounds cool, Hitokiri. ^_^ I wish my parents were like that. I mean, they trust me to buy good stuff, but they don't particularly like the fact that I'm into it. *shrugs*

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 6:12 pm
by Htom Sirveaux
When I first read "when my nani (grandma) visited to make Christmas cookies", I thought "when my what grandma vis... huh? When my what? Oh, nanny, not nonny. Silly me."
But yeah, that's pretty cool that your mom stepped in like that. Anime is an oft-misunderstood form of entertainment, especially among older generations who don't know a thing about it and tend to assume the worst.

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 6:15 pm
by Riku777
my parents are just starting to get into anime themselves. And they're not against it or anything so ya, it's nice :drool:

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 6:18 pm
by Mr. SmartyPants
you do have a cool mom ^^

keeping your friends first.


lol thats SO naruto :lol:

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 6:33 pm
by Warrior 4 Jesus
Your mum rules. My grandma is even less tolerant, sometimes when my brothers and I were much younger we would watch cartoons of the Disney or Warner Bros variety etc. She would ask why we were watching such rubbish! I would get a bit angry about it but keep it to myself.

Then the other night I was watching Noir volume 1 (fairly tame anime) - high body count but no blood, and mum seemed to be okay with it, but when dad heard the gunshots in some scenes he frowned, but didn't say anything. I need to get my parents into anime, badly. If they watched Last Exile they would probably approve though, I may give it a try.

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 7:19 pm
by EvilSporkofDoom
(I just watched that anime - Ghost in the Shell - a couple days ago. It's awesome :D)
Anyway, yeah, that's really cool of your mom to defend anime. I've heard people say they consider anime to be a cultish kind of trend, which I don't really understand. Anime comprises so many different genres, and is available for such a spectrum of age that judging all anime is like blasting all shows on television for having objectionable content or something o_O there's too much of a variety to condemn it as a whole; it just seems like blind criticism to me. I do understand that a lot of parents just want to be on the safe side, however.. and I don't think being extra conservative can hurt.

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 7:29 pm
by Little T-chan
THAT IS SOOOOOOOOOOO COOL!!!!! XD <3 My parents don't really notice the anime...it's been my grand hobby since like 3rd grade..but it's just there for them..^^;; They have noticed I like it...but not much more than that. My mom likes Candy Candy though. Correction! She adores it!! ^__________^

PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 7:30 pm
by Hephzibah
At first, my parents were VERY against it...
when I wanted to buy Gundam Wing, a very clean anime with alot of thought-provoking aspects to it and even based on Revelations (kinda), I had to find a whole heap of Christian reviews on it to convince my mum that it was ok. She eventually said yes, so I bought the entire series :grin:

However, several months later I was beginning to get rather obsessed about anime... my parents helped me to realise that it was bad, so I stopped doing anything related to it for quite sometime. Now that Im older though, I have begun to get into it again but making sure that I dont take it to the level it was before. My parents are cool with that, and are even liking some of the wallpapers I make :D

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 11:20 am
by Raiden no Kishi
Hitokiri...how does your mom feel about adoption? XD

But seriously, that's so cool. If I could just get my mom to accept my fandoom, that'd be great. ^_^

Rai

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 11:55 am
by Hitokiri
Raiden no Kishi wrote:Hitokiri...how does your mom feel about adoption? XD

But seriously, that's so cool. If I could just get my mom to accept my fandoom, that'd be great. ^_^

Rai


She finds it great...me and my sis are adopted ^_^
:lol:

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 12:01 pm
by Maledicte
Lucky you to have a mom like that.
My dad...doesn't *like* anime, and he teases me cause I buy it a lot. But he did like Princess Mononoke and Trigun. So it's not too bad.
My mom has nothing to say about anime at all except "what's that you're watching?" (in mildly confused tones)

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 12:03 pm
by Kinkosami
Your mom's cool Hitokiri.

I'm not totally sure where my mom stands on anime. We got into it so slowly that she never really said anything... or I just don't remember her saying anything. I don't think she's very fond of it though...

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 12:32 pm
by Doubleshadow
My parents are cool about it, and I use cool in the sense of "passively tolerant", as long as I don't try to watch it with them in the room.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 12:36 pm
by That Dude
That's cool that your mom defended your anime. My grandparents and parents support all the anime and manga stuff that I do. They aren't into it that much but they support my love of it. I've wanted to be an anime artist for years and they think that it would be a great job for me. But anyway...They are mostly indifferent to anime. They just don't want me watching certian ones around my younger siblings.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 12:51 pm
by rocklobster
Christian truths I've seen in anime:
1. Love your enemies. (How many times have you seen a villain change sides and join with the heroes)
2. Violence should only be used as a last resort (OK, maybe this isn't in the Bible, but it should be. Trigun is proof that this is taught. Vash tries his best to solve problems w/o violence.)
3. Protect the poor and oppressed (Kenshin, anyone?)
4. The greatest love is to lay down one's life for one's friends (how many heroes have done this?)

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 1:35 pm
by Rogie
GO HITOKIRI'S MOM!!! WOOHOO! :thumb:

Sounds pretty cool. No one's really bashed me about the anime, although my sister finds it weird (she does like Kiki's Delivery Service, though). Plus, my nephew likes some of it. My mom has even mentioned wanting to sit down and actually watch something with me once. My pick for that viewing: Grave of the Fireflies (she'll bawl her eyes out!).

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 2:01 pm
by For_Him
You got a cool mom. My parents aren't into anime, and alot of parents(especially christian) are a bit iffy when it comes to anime. I do like the ones where the main character(s) vows never to kill(Kenshin, Cyborg 009, and Trigun are a few I know). I've told my Dad about Trigun, and I don't know if he's interested.
Anyway Hitokiri, you've got a cool mom, consider yourself a lucky person.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 2:11 pm
by ZiP
Man, that's aweosme your mom sutck up for anime, for those of you who were around when Michael was, he tried to get our dad into anime, he showed him the movie of Cowboy Bebop, and now my dad winces every time I mention anime.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 2:11 pm
by Debitt
^^ I'm glad you're blessed with a mother who's confident enough in you and how she raised you, Hitokiri.

My parents don't monitor what I watch - in fact, even though they're not anime fans, they too enjoy a good kung-fu/karate movie once and a while. My grandma was a bit iffy on the anime at first (she was disturbed by Heero's "I will kill you" line from Gundam Wing), but now she helps me translate the episodes Tactics and Wolf's Rain that I watch.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 2:11 pm
by Kura Ookami
You've got a really cool mom :)

My parents dont really like it but they dont mind me watching it if they're not in the room.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 6:04 pm
by Tidus20
My mom really likes Wolf's Rain...

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 6:19 pm
by Ichigo_89
Yes, very very lucky to have a parent stick up for anime, and actually be supportive for your hobby. *sigh* My mom doesn't like anything unless it's real life, make you feel good movie, reality show, talk show, or a Pixar film. She doesn't hate it, but she thinks it's a waste, none the less. And any sensual looking person on a cover brings it immediatly into question about content or it being bad. (I.E. Cowboy Bebop movie, any Evangelion volumes, etc.)

My dad actually thinks it's pretty cool, and can appreciate some well-done animation and gets a kick out of the big-headed slapstick outbursts many anime characters have. But besides stuff like Kenshin or Big O, he doesn't like it because "it's so fatalistic". But c'mon, it can't always be a good ending, right?! That's asking too much.

And he still dumbly flips through any manga volume I buy, and questions anything on the cover, unless it's Kenshin. But he barely even gives a glance at any Anime DVD I buy in a store, yet if I buy something online, he's like, "Are you SURE you want to buy this?" Ugh, I just wish they'd accept it instead of seeing it as a waste.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 6:37 pm
by Kinkosami
Oops...Err... ignore this post... >.>

PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2004 7:16 pm
by Ashley
I'm really happy to hear that, Hitokiri. A lot of times, too many adults just write off something without any knowledge of it whatsoever. I'm glad to hear your mother is informed and even defending you and your talent.

Heh, as for my parents I did have to sit down and explain "what are you watching and why is that one guy cursing so much", but eventually when they saw that I was looking out for what my brother and sister too in my choices, they were fine with it. And of course, now I'm considered an adult in the house so they don't mind what I watch any more.

PostPosted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 12:38 pm
by Kisa
Sweet! I have my parents doing this somewhat too, eversince I showed them that all anime isn't bad, and the ones I watch and read are good and clean. ^^
Go parents!

PostPosted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 5:34 pm
by Fireproof
Right on. :cool:

PostPosted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 5:39 pm
by c-girl
That's awesome Hitokiri. >^.^<

PostPosted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 5:45 pm
by Jaltus-bot
It is awesome! :)