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H.R.L.G. is just a place for people to give advice about love to me or vica versa!:thumb:

Word of advice: don't go out with a person that you feel sorry for because they like you, but you don't really like them.

I know from experience that being "too nice" by not telling them that you don't like them is bad, but going out with them because they really like you isn't a good thing either...

Bit of a pessimistic start to the topic, but it's true^^

Tenshi no Ai wrote:Word of advice: don't go out with a person that you feel sorry for because they like you, but you don't really like them.

I know from experience that being "too nice" by not telling them that you don't like them is bad, but going out with them because they really like you isn't a good thing either...

Bit of a pessimistic start to the topic, but it's true^^

I know that. thanks. i was meaning the fact that well i have a bf and he's great, but he still treats me like i just one of his friends. i was kinda wondering if that was normal?:?:

Well, I think that if you have a BF that treats you like a friend...it means that he's comfortable around you. Shouldn't your boyfriend treat you like a friend? I think it's a good thing....He could be treating you like some object. >_< I'm not gonna say much on this topic since my boy friend just joined....Not that he'd be reading this for awhile since his comp's down....*shurgs* He's a good guy and I'm glad that God put him in my life. ^_^ I've talked over our relationship with him openly and it seems to have helped us understand each other.

Here's a few questions. How long did you know him before you became bf & gf? and how long have you been bf & gf?

One question: why the Romantic Losers?

its better that he treats you like a friend, to shopw that you aren't some sort of "special" person, so it shows that he's not acting and he's jsut being normal. Um, i think i worded it right. If i didn't just know that it's better that you are treated like a friend. He's probably taking it sssslllllooooowwwwww whhhhiiiicccchhhhh iiiiissss ggggooooooooooddddd

try reading purity and passion by elizabeth eliot it's really good and it'll help in your situation. it helped me but i won't get into that.

bakura_fan wrote:Well, I think that if you have a BF that treats you like a friend...it means that he's comfortable around you. Shouldn't your boyfriend treat you like a friend? I think it's a good thing....He could be treating you like some object. >_< I'm not gonna say much on this topic since my boy friend just joined....Not that he'd be reading this for awhile since his comp's down....*shurgs* He's a good guy and I'm glad that God put him in my life. ^_^ I've talked over our relationship with him openly and it seems to have helped us understand each other.

Here's a few questions. How long did you know him before you became bf & gf? and how long have you been bf & gf?

a year and a half. a year this december.

I'll talk to my BF later tonight and I'll talk it over with him. He's pretty good at giving advice. I'll post our answer when we talk next. k?

Romantic people are so not losers. Note to men: it does wonders.

Thanks for that Kat, but why then do nice guys always come last??

I wanna sign up for this club, LOSER!!

my goodness... I should definatley sign up for this one!

I'm still dreamiong of my Knight in Shining Armor comeing and stealing me away and riding off to his castle on his white stallion..................And then he will give me roses and we get married.... :):):):):):)

hey anyone can join.i kinda am not with the guy i was asking for advice about anymore. but i'll still give and take advice.

hey guys i got a new bf. he's the greatest.

This is my two coins in.......I have never ever had a girl friend and never will untill my schooling is done....I do have friends that are girls but I don't have a relationship with any of them........for now I am waiting for my life to simer down untill I go find the right person to be my loving wife.

For now my advice is to wait untill God allows you to get Married......Dateing is just a way to know the person and to decied if they are the one That will be with you till you Get called home by God.

Could it be for love? Illusions, Mr. Anderson. Vagaries of perception. The temporary constructs of a feeble human intellect trying desperately to justify an existence that is without meaning or purpose. And all of them as artificial as the Matrix itself, although only a human mind could invent something as insipid as love.

i'm feeling cynical

Artimus-sama wrote:hey guys i got a new bf. he's the greatest.

REALLY!!!! OOOOO WHAT HE LIKE??? Spill da beans gurl! Talk about him!

All Ryan needs is a Hmm hum and he's all set >.>

Locke wrote:All Ryan needs is a Hmm hum and he's all set >.>

So acting like a girl will get you loads of girlfriends?

you guys(SP, KO, And LOCkE) are full of it.

..i still dont UNDERSTAND! lol

I'm past trying to understand...I just need a GF.
Hey,I'm not proud,I'll be glad to take either Kazuki's or Tenchi's leftovers!

LOL you are so funny.

Yeah,but it be nicer if someone of the female persusasion had said that to me.

Everyone says im funny (except the people i meet online). I guess im just... not a very onliney person.

I've had about 20 different chances to date/go out/take a girl somewheres whatever this year and i refuse each time. I've never found love interesting... Wow i'm so blasphemic! (people I know are starting to realize this as well =)

Love hurts. It is a joy and a pain all in one little box with a bow. You cant breathe with out them or with them and your heart just stops beating. Your thoughts are always on them and you never forget them no matter how hard you try. -_-

Not everybody is romantic. Therefore, when they meet someone who isn't a hopeless romantic, they lose out. Personally I find obsessive love and romantic chases very wonderful.

It's only natural to like someone...hell, I've felt it, and then it makes you go sooo gooey and soft and nervous in front of them.

But if they RREALLY aren't interested, it's better to find something to interest you so that you go off them in THAT way. In fact, once I just prayed for it and I went off them really quickly.

It's all about looking beyond what's in front of you...is it real or just a dream?

I had the terrible revelation in church today that while I love Mitsuki Sanada and Rara agewise I'm old enough to date and marry either Akane(Dual!)
or Mitsuki's mom Ayuko!
I don't wanna end up with someone like Ayuko!I wanna end up with someone like Mituski Sanada or Rara or even Kagome.
Well with my luck if we had the big klabooey and there was only one
woman left on Earth and I was the only man left she would have to
turn out to be Ayuko!
PLEASE don't let that happen.Friends don't let friends date or even marry
Ayukos!