To All of Those Who Feel Unappreciated

[cbwing0]

Since there are now four threads of people complaining about various things, with the chief complaint being a lack of recognition for their contributions, I think it is necessary to respond.

So, to all of you who feel this way...

...get over it.

Sorry, that was my first reaction. Here is some real advice:

Based on the nature of certain jobs, your individual personality, or other people, you may not always get recognition for your contributions or accomplishments.

This brings to mind the example of my grandparents. They have gone to the same church for over forty years. My grandmother is basically in charge of the monthly luncheons, while my grandfather is head of the building and groups committee. The building and grounds people are responsible for maintaining the building, utilities, and landscaping, among other things. Without these things, the church would (perhaps literally) fall apart, and at the very least there would be a lot less joy for the congregation. The luncheon people work in the back preparing food, moving tables/chairs, and all of the other things involved with feeding lots of people. They do not receive any kind of pay for these jobs, yet without them the church would be in pretty bad shape. On top of that, they are some of the oldest members of the church. Why am I telling you this? Well, whenever the pastor (and there have been moire than a few over the years) rattles off the names of great people in our church, their names are overlooked. They don't ever complain about this; on the contrary, they continue to be faithful servants. While this state of affairs is reflects poorly on the other members of the congregation, it is a perfect example of humility and faithful service that from which you might learn.

I am not saying you are being arrogant, or childish, or even slightly unreasonable. Everyone needs to be told, "Thanks," or "Good job," every once in a while. So for those that feel they are not appreciated, I say Thanks.

Oh wait...the mods already did this: http://www.christiananime.net/forums/showthread.php?t=4875

Ironically, that thread was up before any of you made your posts.

I apologize if I've offended anyone, but before you get angry, think about why you are offended. Are you offended because I am right, or because I am wrong?

[cbwing0]

No one's replying...oh the irony.

[The Grammarian]

So are you going to start complaining now?

[cbwing0]

Nope, but I will point out the humor in the situation.

[EireWolf]

I just don't think you appreciate me enough.

[Michael]

And to those who feel overappreciated, tough!

[Locke]

ill just lurk in the shadows.... *lurks*

[Kokhiri Sojourn]

Good going, cbwing. I find myself complaining all too much these days, though much moreso about things offline than here. But it is a great reminder that sometimes receiving praise from the Lord in secret is better than receiving the praise of men.

[uc pseudonym]

Hmmm... I haven't noticed these complaining threads, but perhaps I ignored them subconsciously. I don't think I complain about feeling underappreciated, in fact, I do a great job of not complaining about being underappreciated. I wish someone would notice that I do a great job of being quiet about being underappreciated. Someone should notice that I do a great job being quiet about being underappreciated. RIGHT NOW!

If anyone takes that at all seriously, you have the legal right to put your hand in a waffle iron.

[Mave]

*hand sizzles on iron*

YYYYEEEOOOOWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!

I never thought it hurts so much to take UC seriously.

[uc pseudonym]

[irony]You actually put your hand in a waffle iron? Oh no! I wasn't serious about it! Now I feel really bad...[/irony]

Actually, I did seriously mean to compliment cbwing0 on this thread, which I feel was very needed. All of us could use a bit more humility in our lives, and his statements have been helpful to that goal, at least they hopefully have. By my humor I in no way intended to belittle that which he has stated, nor ignore it. If we could get back on topic...

[Michael]

And for all of you who feel sort of appreciated, but more lactose-intolerant, tough!

[The Grammarian]

What about those of us who are tolerance-intolerant?

[Straylight]

Actually, I did seriously mean to compliment cbwing0 on this thread, which I feel was very needed. All of us could use a bit more humility in our lives, and his statements have been helpful to that goal, at least they hopefully have. /QUOTE]

I would echo that sentiment.

[Bobtheduck]

I would echo that sentiment.

Yeah he would... But then he'd have to kill you.

I mean... Er... Good Job, CB. ^_^;

[Savior_Sora]

I complain about a lot of stuff...like I didn;t get enough to eat, or im cold....stuff like that...then i realize...hey i can satisfy myself practically anytime and the people who are homeless and poor would give anything to have the complaints i have...For me I've realized that i take stuff for granted but sometimes i catch myself and thank God for my parents and the necessities i have...Everyone don't take stuff for granted...it's stupid

[mechana2015]

but more lactose-intolerant, tough!

Hey I resemble the Lactose part of that....

[cbwing0]

What about those of us who are tolerance-intolerant?

They're ok.