We're still hanging on.
This is what happened last thursday...
My friend started noticing some unusual things when she goes to the washroom.. it wasn't anything severe or unbearable..
But she was concerned so she notified the doctor about it.
On their doctors appointment.. the doctor was so negative.. telling her that its most likely that the baby will be lost.. :'( basing on the ultra sounds and her previous blood tests..
Even though the UltraSound technicians who tested her said that everything looks normal and she should be ok.
Just imagine how my friend felt when she heard that news.. her heart was broken and she was crying. On her way out, the secretary was asking her about her adress and postal code and she couldnt even remember.. she was shaking.. and she was so afraid :'(
This doctor shows no sign of compassion at all.. shes always so blunt and direct about her work. She's always so discouraging.. and she takes away any kind of hope.. with her cold personality.
That's what happened last week.
I came to her and told her, no matter how bad it sounds.. no matter how high the odds are stacked agaisnt you. You have to get up and stay strong.. I told her not to give up on this baby, coz there are still positive signs that we can focus on. Not all hope was lost.
So this monday, the blood results from friday came in..
And it was positive. It went really well. So that's a really good sign..
Plus she's eating alot more than normal, and getting tired often.. showing normal signs of pregnancy, which means that everything should be ok.
But lately, we've been noticing the unusual negative signs come and go..
She feels like calling the doctor again, but we already know what she'll say.
Just more words of dscouragement.. so we're just goin to wait for her next appointment some time this week.
Im proud of her, that shes made it so far despite all the odds against her.
We're still hanging in there. Staying positive, and keeping faith in God.
I love her and I worry about her alot.. when she gets scared, I also get a little afraid
But I know I have to be strong for her and be her support. Please pray that we both have the courage to face the obstacles ahead. And may God watch over us and give us strength.
Thanks everyone